i can never find him when i want to. its always when i'm not looking for him or not really paying attention. although our college library is where i have found him most of the time. its just that when i have time to try and get to know him he's nowhere to be found.
2006-09-20 03:44:49 · 4 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
cause i'm usually busy or rushing to class or something, or i'm in the library where you can't really talk.
2006-09-20 03:50:12 · update #1
no its not that i need to look good its just that he's really hot
2006-09-20 08:36:23 · update #2
So why not talk to him when you see him? Do you need to look pretty! What's the real reason you are afraid to talk to him?
Ok... is there a time when you usually see him there or a pattern? If there is a time try and get there a bit early... If you really want to get to know him getting there a bit early should not be a problem. Just don't come on too strong and try to be relaxed, Start with the simple questions like what book are you reading, what classes are you taking try to find some common ground and interest and build on that. By the way talking in library is not a bad thing consider it a safe place to talk and if the conversation it going in the right direction then suggest a different place to talk out in the quad or invite him to a cup of coffee.
2006-09-20 03:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An interesting problem, but not unsolveable.
I think you both may be wanting the same thing. Perhaps you're both excited about the 'cat n mouse' game going on.
He's obviously seeing how nervous you are to go over and speak to him while he's in the library, however, he may also feel the same when trying to work up his nerve to respond to your wants and needs.
Either way, pull those shoulders back, head up, chin forward, and when you head toward him - walk right by! Wow, this must have thrown you - you weren't expecting this were you?
I said - walk on by - just to let him know you're willing to talk, but by placing the ball in his court, you can now determine whether this chase is really what you both need. In fact, by you just walking on by - it will give him the chance to work up his nerve and who knows, he may just respond.
Don't take all the responsibility of making that crucial first move -hand over the reins and let him chase you a little. You will not only be glad you did, but I'm certain it will definitely be a conversation piece when you guys celebrate future anniversaries.
Good luck!
2006-09-20 05:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, that same thing's happened to me!!!!!!
What I did was wait until he leaves the library and then strike up a conversation with him. As in, "hey, I've been u before" and then go from there. It's actuallly kind of a thrill!
2006-09-20 04:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kookoo Bananas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you do see him in the Lib say hi. I know you're supposed to be quiet in libraries, but but saying hello to someone isn't going to get you kicked out. And if you do get shushed then suggest you both go get coffee or something so you can continue talking. ;) Good luck!
2006-09-20 05:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋