My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months now and I get this weird feeling about his roommate. My boyfriend is 24 and his roommate is 55. His roommate is a retired stockbroker and has lots of money. He likes to take my boyfriend on trips, out to dinner, plays and pays for every thing. This last week he says that his roommate came into his room drunk and wanted to talk. He crawled into his bed and they cuddled and talked. My boyfriend says that it was a really good bonding experience and nothing happened. He says that he does not think of him in any sexual way what so ever. I trust my boyfriend, and know that he does not have feeling for his roommate. On the other hand I do not trust his roommate. Is this weird or am I being Paranoid?
2006-09-20 03:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My gut feeling: The older roomie has a thing for your boy friend and it's not weird but can cause a lot of trouble in the future. For right now just observe and listen. If you continue to feel the way you do have a calm talk with BF. There is a reason women have intuition.
2006-09-20 03:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wierd, definately. Just because you trust your boyfriend does not mean you should trust his roommate. It sounds like he's buttering him up for something. I don't know what to tell you though, you might want to talk his roommate to clear the air about everything, it just sounds suspicious to me.
2006-09-20 10:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think your boyfriend would consider being with his money filled roommate! Why else would he allowed his roomote to "cuddle" him? Sounds to me your boyfriend is a player or Bi-sexual.
2006-09-20 10:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like thats your boyfriends suga daddy!
2006-09-20 10:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heterosexual men do not cuddle with other men and call it a "bonding experience." Your BF is trying to break it to you gently that he is bisexual.
2006-09-20 10:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend is hiding something from you. That is not normal behaviour and if my man was doing that i would kick his a$$.
2006-09-20 10:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are right. It is weird.
2006-09-20 10:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by deep5223 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋