Should your significant other provide sex for you on your birthday without any prompting on your part?
2006-09-20 03:02:07 · 21 answers · asked by Echelon Right 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Absolutely. And new undies should be purchased for this momentous occasion!
2006-09-20 03:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual relations from a biblical perspective is reserved for persons who have made life commitments to each other that include pledges of fidelity, trust and love. It is generally called marriage.
Legally it can be called a marriage or a civil union.
"Significant other" usually refers to a person who has not made a promise of love, fidelity and commitment for life; only temporarily.
In such relationships, sex is often a bartering tool or physical exercise that can be given or withheld as a reward or punishment if it is withheld. While this can exist in a marriage too, it is most prevalent in "significant other" arrangements.
Those who truly love each other and are committed to the happiness and well being of each other will want to share great moments in many ways. Such a celebration may include sex, spending quality time or other means of celebration. It is spontaneous. It does not need prompting. It is a result of love and commitment.
The idea of "providing" sex rather than sharing a moment together indicates the underlying futility of the "significant other" arrangement.
2006-09-20 10:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bruce Frazier 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Indubitably
2006-09-20 10:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by zoobrett 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-20 10:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by etngapech 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
It shouldn't be an obligation, but a presentation of the care and affection you have for one another
I haven't had birthday sex in 20 years
2006-09-20 10:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely!
2006-09-20 10:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Joe & Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it just depends on you. Do you deserve a birthday gift like that. If you do it should not matter who iniciates the deed. I don't honestly think that you should assume it to be a given. You know what they say about assuming.
2006-09-20 10:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by mini7mou 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Generally yes, provided no sickness or other trauma exists then.
2006-09-20 10:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and it should be lead up to with spankings. who evers not the bday person is obligated to do whatever to make sure its worthy of bday doings, possibly involve cake and icecream, and wrapping paper.
2006-09-20 10:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by jonny_badnews 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only yes but in any manner the birthday person wishes....our ritual is the birthday booty boff
2006-09-20 10:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by Hando C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋