have not felt really in the mood since having the children. Could this be linked to the anxiety. Thanx 4 all the supportive answers to my last question. I will take all the useful info on board.
2006-09-20 02:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
The same thing is happening to me. I just let mawma and pawpa watch her/him once a week, usually on the weekends. Becasue I do feel a little weird having sex with my little one in the house. Maybe try that. Good Luck
2006-09-20 02:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how many children you have, but you're probably tired! Do you ever get a break? Tell your husband you want a night out at least once or twice a month. Get a babysitter and go have some fun. When you feel less tired and stressed the urge will come back, especially if you do some romantic things with your husband. Good luck.
2006-09-20 09:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by blondee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how long since your children but rest assured you are not alone. You are probably tired or preoccupied now you have a family.
However, men especially can feel left out if the physical side of marraige is lacking. I would suggest you discuss the problem with your husband/partner (however difficult this is) and decide on a way you are both happy with to resolve it.
2006-09-21 14:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its not you and your man is not getting you spiced up try putting blind folds and feed you choclate coverd strawberries a liitle soft music in the back ground or sneak away and do it in your car or in the woods like when you where younger or in the rain spice it up and yes working all day and then dealing with the kids befrore bed does kill the moment go buy some adult toys do it in a box with a fox with green ham and eggs or some hot massage lotion tell your man or show your man the spot that gets you hot or something you wanted to try but dont have the guts to ask
2006-09-20 09:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by greg m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and spice it up a bit. involve roleplay and foreplay into it, dress up. go on a break away from the kids for one night. Take a deep breath and calm down. youll feel much better
2006-09-20 09:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by alismudge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could still be suffering with post natal depression without even knowing it. Have a chat with your gp. Dont feel embarassed, he's heard it all before.
2006-09-20 10:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by david429835 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon, the more you have it, the more you want it. Maybe you could try to masturbate a lot and think rude thoughts whenever possible to boost your drive.
2006-09-20 09:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Powerpuffgeezer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you feeling depressed PPD?
Either way you should discuss with your doctor. Not unusual but you should get some professional advice.
2006-09-20 09:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by mjdp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a toy boy
2006-09-20 10:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never be botherd.
2006-09-20 09:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋