Already confronted him about who the mystery person is and says its just a friend near to work. Suddenly the phone no has gone from the phone book but I know messages and contact still continues. What should I do?
2006-09-20 01:36:00 · 16 answers · asked by Lesley B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
end it..
2006-09-20 01:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have proof that there is still contact? have you seen any messages yourself? if so then you need to go by what these messages are saying and work from that to resolve your concerns. If there is no evidence but you feel he might be playing away....then start changing your routines, meet him from work occasionally for drinks if possible using the reason that you wanna spend some time with him, try and keep him busy, make plans for both of u to do things and try and inject some new and exciting things in your relationship sexually and otherwise.. What you shouldnt do is outright accuse him of anything unless you have solid evidence.
2006-09-20 01:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by felicitym2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont confront, communicate
sit him down and ask him to please be honest with you
tell him you need to know the truth so that you can decide what you want to do with your life.
if he is interested in someone else and doesnt take this marriage seriously then you must end it.
lifes too short and not worth wasting time on a man who is going to continue to cheat on you.
there is no need to spy on him, or go through his phone etc, this will only increase the bitterness. ask him to be honest with you and if he serious about you two, he will tell you the truth. think can you forgive ?
good luck
2006-09-20 01:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're able to be able to desire to get a grip and have confidence him. No couple is mutually 24/7 and you in user-friendly terms ought to have confidence that he's being easy. do no longer even ask him if he has thought-approximately yet another female on a similar time as on the cruise deliver...you would be quite lots asserting to him which you do no longer have confidence him. Deleting the telephone messages....for sure there's a reason of that and that's in comparison to he's hiding something from you. except he has achieved different issues that appear as if he's hiding something i think of you in user-friendly terms ought to study to be greater shield.
2016-10-15 05:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him and make him tell you the truth or else you will walk away from the relationship. It will be hard to walk from the relationship but marriage is about trust and committing to each other and he obviously isn't following this.
2006-09-20 02:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by emmalp75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you know for certain that he is cheating, do not do anything drastic. My girlfriend nearly dumped me after she was told by her mate that i had been kissing someone else, but i swear to god it didnt happen. i had to explain over and over and now things are the best ever and we are about to move in together
2006-09-20 03:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Gravy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry darling he's obviously someone who can't be trusted. Get a private detective to look into it for you but use his money to pay for it. Then if he is get rid.
Frank.
2006-09-20 02:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by funguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he is cheating, all the signs are there, he is being way to secretive with you. Have a sit down, and straight forward talk with him, and tell him to come clean, or else!!!!!!
2006-09-20 01:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow him or ring the show cheaters to follow him orrrrrr call me in we can follow him together we can be private detectives I'm cheap well actually I'm free...
2006-09-20 01:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you wait, he will c ome back,
if you are in hurry, both of you loose
i suggest bear it for a while, be nice to him, pertain that you have no problem
2006-09-20 01:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by afzalbrohi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow him......or pay a private investigator is not so expensive.......is better to know the truth with facts...!!
2006-09-20 02:30:15 · answer #11 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋