everytime me and my partner have a little tiff? help
2006-09-20 01:30:25 · 15 answers · asked by sweets 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you feel like you're in control of the situation if you cry, men tend to want to cave in when their partner cries.
2006-09-20 01:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel like if anyone has to be the strong one in the relationship then it has to be you. That is perfectly fine. Don't cry about anything that is not a life or death situation. Yeah in every relationships you have problems and disagreements but just think if we let the problems of a relationship hold us down how would we be able to make it through the day? So, in conclusion to me it seems perfectly normal to hold back because with some guys if they know that everytime that yall get in an argument you are gonna cry then they will take advantage of making cry and seeing you upset. But trust me you will know the right time to cry its just not that big of a situation if you and your partner just have a little disagreement. BEST OF LUCK!!!
2006-09-20 08:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5171989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had your hormone levels checked? This could be one reason - another could be that you have a mild form of depression - or you are worried that with every tiff it could mean the end of your relationship?? These are obviously all guesses but they could be some areas to think about and get checked out.
2006-09-20 08:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Kazz♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are a very emotional person thats why. I get the same way,,and you feel hurt when there is an argument because you care about him. You want things to be happy between the both of you all the time. which is not going to be always the case. Work out your differences and make sure you communicate to him whats bothering you.
2006-09-20 08:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you, but maybe that's what makes this kind of medium easy to communicate on. You don't have to think too hard about it. My answer is, because life in general, even at some the most basic levels, is hard and many times we need a stress release.
2006-09-20 08:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Andre1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking us, then you need to talk to somebody professional about this. It's not that we don't know anything; just in marriage you need to work things out with your partner by yourself or with, again, professional help. If you have this problem continue, go get a marriage counselor or talk to somebody you trust about it. Get it solved.
2006-09-20 08:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intimadation is a *****. Tears is a healing process and ever time you shad some remember that. Time to move on to the next process of the relationship or stop it.
2006-09-20 08:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way. For me it is because I can't stand any kind of conflict. Lots of fighting in my house when I was growing up. Maybe you think if you are fighting he doesn't love you? You have to look at your past to understand your present.
2006-09-20 08:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by butterflyaht1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me send you a big bear hug ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You are obviously a VERY tender hearted person. Confrontation rattles your cage so to speak. Some of us despise confrontation, fights, arguments, spats, disagreements etc. Unfortunately they are going to come and we are going to have to deal with them. Just try and remember that the sun rise is coming in the morning with happiness and joy riding on it`s wings. Things will get better. Making up is the fun part.
Have a better day sweety.
Jim
2006-09-20 08:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god I thought I was the only one that felt that way!!! That happens to me a lot, but maybe it could help us if we talk to some one about it. You could email at rigobert_anaya@sbcglobal.net I'll be waiting bye.
2006-09-20 08:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mi Corazon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋