my mum is a strict person...therefore she is not a understanding person...all she thinks about is what she wants from me..tats all..pls help me people...
2006-09-20 01:24:04 · 10 answers · asked by nurul ashikin a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look at it this way, your mom has been down that same road you are now traveling. She remembers what it was like to be 16. It is impossible for you to know 1/4 of the things she may have forgotten and the times may be different, but thing are pretty much the same. If you choose to calm down and listen to her, in the long run, you will thank her. If not, you will be fighting with her for years to come, because you lost the meaning and feeling of her as your mom and your mom as your friend, your best friend. After all is said and done and you have kids of your own, will you tell them that your mother was strict or will you explain to them that your mother love you very much and you do the same for your kids.
2006-09-20 01:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet sixteen. Men love that age, your mom is during what she is suppose to do, respect her for it, YOU understand a little bit of her feelings and communicate together now, this year will NOT be repeated. Don't miss out on some wonderful knowledge, and a beautiful year to bond. You'll talk about it later on in life.
2006-09-20 01:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't need to take any pocket money from your mum, can wash your own clothes, cook your 3 meals, keep your room clean, take care of your mum when she is sick...then maybe you can declare yourselve "able to take care of myself". When you grow older, you will understand, what she wants from you now, is what you need. Until you understand this, then probably your mum will grant you with all freedom.
2006-09-20 15:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your mom is just trying to help you ok. i know you want your own space. you are growing up so fast. maybe that what she see. but give her a break ok. maybe tell her mom i am going to do things with my friends and my boyfriend. then one day you can spend it with her. so i hope you get what i am trying to say and good luck
2006-09-20 01:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can take care of your self....are you working?????Do you have your our house or apartment????be realistic your parents wants the best for you and always will....so stop being rebel
2006-09-20 02:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very difficult. There will always be a generation gap.
2006-09-20 01:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be responsible make mature decisions and remember you are that important to her and she just doesn't want you to repeat her mistakes...
2006-09-20 01:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by daddyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act responsible
2006-09-20 01:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by P S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not stupid she is watching your foot steps your legs are getting little twisted. but she never say yes do it b/c her mother did same with her, show her my aswer she will ............
2006-09-20 01:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by afzalbrohi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom is probably just trying to protect you..
2006-09-20 01:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋