he started out really nice and treated me well but now he is acting like he doesnt have time for me what do i do?
2006-09-20 01:22:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him to make time for the two of you to sit down and talk things out. If he's unwilling to do that, then it sounds like he's distancing himself from you in an attempt to break up with you without actually saying the words. You really need to talk things out with him so that if he's trying to break up with you, at least you will have some closure.
2006-09-20 01:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the kurb! Boys/Men are reported to have this trait where all they want is sex and sometimes they will say what they think you want to hear and do what you want to do just to get you bedded. Once they get the notch in the bedpost or it's too much hard work to get you to bed they lose interest.
It is normal though for people to change slightly once you start a real relationship or start living together. This can be a good sign also. It just means that when you feel safe and comfortable you "let your guard" down and act more naturally.
But from what you discribe I would guess he is bored with you or it's too much work for him.
2006-09-20 08:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Beentheredonethat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature to get sombudy and then look further.
Specially Males....
he might be trying to get rid of u,,, or he might be having the feeling that now u r mine, u cannt go anywhere or live without him so he is not giving u as much care he should
Try to know his views on relationships... it will help u to know him better!!!!
Wish u good luck!!!
2006-09-20 08:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rock_shock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens to guys. it happened to me and now im regreting it. i got complacent and took my girlfriend for granted now im single :( the best thng you can do is sit him down and ask him the bluntest questions you can. also brute honesty is paramount here. if you dont get the answers your after you know where you have to go :) the best thing to do is to say "this is your final chance if you want to make this work". i never got that and i know for a fact if my girlfriend said that to me then i would have snapped out of that downward spiral and i would have gone upwards. hope that helps and good luck xxx
2006-09-20 08:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him. See if there is something behind it. Tell him you are feeling rejected or put aside and see what he has to say. If he really loves you he will tell you the truth and be able to give you an answer to this.
If there is an issue, he will either tell you or avoid the question.
GL
2006-09-20 08:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he been cheating on you? Or maybe he is just one of those jerks who like to get sex and then dumps you..
2006-09-20 08:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he playin' games wit u, just show him dat 2 can play dat game and he'll come around, trust me...... my man is following me like a love sick dog
2006-09-20 08:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by zeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably wants to break up with you but is to immature to do it in a responsible way
2006-09-20 08:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by bjo53w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing last forever as long as it made of life
2006-09-20 08:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you had sex with him uhhhhhh sorry maybe he was just after the sex
2006-09-20 08:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by P S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋