He says he loves me, and we are supposed to leave for Texas to start a new life together in less then two months. He writes me or calls everyday. He has an ex wife to be that is an addict and has been awol for approx a year, he has two children that await us when he is released. I love him and he has changed drastically since he caught the case years ago.
2006-09-20 00:36:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow...I am surprised...if that avatar is your actual photo you are far too beautiful & you sound far too intelligent to be putting up with this crap. If nothing else...he is unavailable to you right now, and you are wasting your lovely self wating around for him. Life is just TOOOOOOOO short. Of course he's so attentive to you right now....what else could he be doing? You deserve better.
2006-09-20 00:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by MonsterMash 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that people do make mistakes and if he is serving his time, he has taken his punishment if it was not hurting someone. If he did hurt someone physically then that is something to be leery of. Here is what I think, you have your doubts about him and I would say to get to know him better before you commit yourself to a life with him and his children. If he has truly reformed then decide if this is what you want but under no circumstances go running into the unknown. Good luck on this!
2006-09-20 00:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My "boyfriend" is in prison too. it has been a year since he got locked up, and i have not had sexual relations with anyone during this time. But it is certainly not because "im waiting" - although I am waiting. Hard to explain... but what im trying to say is.That is a very immature decision to make.... To wait on a "boyfriend" who is in prison. What if "another" mr perfect comes along during this time? You going to pass it up just because your boyfriend is in prison? Husband, family with children... maybe different story - but boyfriend of 1 year? I think that to remain in waiting regardless of other circumstances presenting themselves is a bit rigid of a decision to make. If someone else comes along, and you have sworn to wait... you will either miss out on a possible good relationship with this other person, or you will become "a women not of her word" to the guy in prison. He may love you, but they tend to feel love so much stronger when they are locked up. And they "say" it way too much....
2006-09-20 00:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Ruby ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear Sweet friend, I say follow your Heart!Only you can anwser this Questoin! But remember everybody has Skeltons in there closet{As the Saying Goes!} In other words,We all have made mistakes in the pass or has ****-up one way or another,As long as you learn by your mistakes and Change for the better,Then every body deserves a second chance!A 3,4,5,ect. for that matter!Lets be Honest,We all have dunn stuff in pass that were not proud of,but as long as you try not to repete that mistake and try to be a honest person to your self and others,He deserves a second chance to do it right this time around!Trust me,I bet he,s learned big time after going to Jail!So my friend follow your heart and do what you really,really want to do,Be with him and if it does not work,There is always the door!Good Luck Sweety!Hollywood!
2006-09-20 00:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
after he gets out give him a 3 mos probation period to see if he is true . I dont think you should move any where with anybody until you really get to know that person . let him move to texas first and get hisself together and see how true he really is,if he is changed like you say he is god has a way of making thinks work out if that is the way it should be. TAKE YOUR TIME!
2006-09-20 00:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't rush into things, everyone in jail gets the jail house religion. I would at least give him a year to be out in society to see how he handles it, make sure it he is able in some kind of legal way to take care of you financially. Most important pray for guidance in what decisions that you need to make. Good Luck....
2006-09-20 00:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by its just me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a match made in heaven. Make sure you get the deluxe trailer though, not the little one. And find a nice park to put it in.
2006-09-20 00:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone get involved with such a looser? He has a wife and you put up with being his "girlfriend". Girl, you are one sick puppy to think this is all you deserve. If you were my daughter, I would tell you to go get your head examined.
2006-09-20 00:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what he did...did you meet him in prison? also its easy for him to say his wife was an addict and blame stuff on her but there are ALWAYS two sides to every story.....if you stay involved with him there will be consequences so just understand you can't complain when things go bad.
2006-09-20 00:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should do what you think is best for you.
Proceed with a certain amount of caution though.
I hope it all works out well for you.
2006-09-20 00:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋