or better to have never loved at all. i fell deeply in love with a married woman...and her with me. now she wants to be friends until she sorts things out. should i wait - maybe for nothing - or wait like some love sick idiot. either way my heart is broken! anyone ever gone through this...what did you do. no matter what i do i can't stop thinking of her and being with her....and it was never about sex - it was the most fulfilling emotional bond i have ever experienced and really still is. just hurts like hell. and if you're going to call me an *** for getting involved with a married woman - line up!!!
2006-09-20 00:22:59 · 13 answers · asked by firenice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its better that than never to have been loved!!!!!!!!!!! xx
2006-09-20 01:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. You can't always help who you fall in love with(married or single.) I would probably wait around for awhile and see what happens w/her. I've been in similar situations, it hurts like hell and you feel the pain will never go away. Sometimes it takes a long time, because that's all you can think of. Try to stay busy. We all have expectations of how we would like a relationship to be, and when that fails, we fall very hard. I'm hurting about a breakup right now myself. It feels like you'll never see the light at the end of the tunnel. Good luck, just remember things happen for a reason, you may not know what it is at this moment, but it will become clear someday.
2006-09-20 00:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by jeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy... Even though you have not told your age, i can just guess it around 20. ok, then it is a thing which will happen to every person, i mean only to those who were not in so close proximity to a women. Dont worry try to concentrate on other things like those you like the most... then you will automatically forget her... Even though it is difficult, you should move on.. Nothing is impossible..
Just remember that you will get a girl in your life after some years may be a girl friend or wife...
If you want to spend the life with a already married women's life you will end up spoiling both your and her life tooo.....
Bye Remenber what i said... It's common at this age.
2006-09-20 00:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mahesh D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y disturbing a married woman's life
if u really luv her n want 2 c her happy
then forget her, get involved in some other work.
2 gain ur luv dont ever grab some body's luv
coz her husband luvs her.
just wait n watch
u"ll have a girl in ur life who"ll luv u much more.
2006-09-20 01:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The married woman is a cheater. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If she were to leave her husband for you, would you ever be able to trust her?
I think you should give yourself time.
Another old saying, Time heals all wounds.
2006-09-20 00:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by SallyC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that scene in Men in Black, when J uses that line on K?
Remember his reply? I do.
Been there, dood. It sucks. And blows. You have no choice but to endure or move on.
I chose to endure. When I could no longer endure,I decided to help facilitate the breakup. She ended up resenting me, and in the end we ended up hating each other. Me for being the source of her guilt, and her for ultimately rejecting me.
So to any who say it's better to have loved and lost: Try it sometime.
2006-09-20 00:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to call you names for falling in love - but come on, it's time to see that the fantasy is not going to turn into reality. Date others and get on with your life - enough time wasted already.
2006-09-20 00:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is better to have loved......I was 42 before I knew what love is....and I have lost it......I miss it......but I am grateful for the feelings that I would have never known had it not been for him.
It was the best time of my life.......really.
2006-09-20 00:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she in love with her husband?
are they ok?
are they facing marriage trouble?
is she promising u anything?
if the answeres were all yes... then wait..
other wise move on.. u r hurt in both ways!
2006-09-20 00:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by CuteeWorried 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone!!! N don't spoil her life plzx. We r not making another Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehan.
May her hubby come to knw abou u people and kill both of u. May he is not like Abhishek, den wat u will do?
Come out as soon as possible!!!
2006-09-20 00:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sahil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋