2006-09-20 00:19:21 · 13 answers · asked by SEXY GYPSY GIRL2006 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
yes. use only ur fingers r a carrot r radish r a brinjal. until u r 21.
2006-09-20 00:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Motu P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends a lot more on the people involved than the age. 15 is around the average age to begin having sex, so that's not anything out of the ordinary. At 15 a person is able to be responsible about sex (even though many 15 year olds aren't.) In my opinion, as long as you're doing it because you and your partner care about each other, you use protection, and you are monogomous, then I don't think it's too young.
As far as moral standards go, that depends on your own personal faith and beliefs. Many people would say that you shouldn't have sex until you become an adult (although there are plenty of 18 year olds who are less prepared for the consequences of sex than some 15 year olds.) Others will say that you should wait for marriage, but, honestly, if you were planning on doing that you wouldn't be asking this question. Very, very few people wait until marriage for sex.
As long as you're careful and you're doing it because you honestly want to, I think 15, while a little young, is ok.
2006-09-20 08:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by mojo4395 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a wonderful gift, but if uncontrolled, it has a great capacity for evil as well as good. Our bodies were not made to have multiple sex partners. Almost all risk of STD and out-of-wedlock pregnancy can be avoided by saving intercourse for marriage. And it can be done.
When teenagers start having sex earlier in life, they are much more likely to have multiple sexual partners, a behavior that puts them at greater risk for STD. When teenagers become sexually active before they are 18 years of age, 75% of them will have more than 2 partners and 45% of them will have 4 or more partners. If sexual activity begins after the 19th birthday, only 20% will have 2 or more partners and only 1% will have 4 or more partners.
A 15-year-old girl has a 1-in-8 chance of developing pelvic inflammatory disease simply by having sex, whereas a 24-year-old woman has only a 1- in-80 chance in the same situation.
Young people who become sexually active enter an arena of high-risk behavior that leads to physical and emotional damage. Each year, influenced by a combination of a youthful assumption of invincibility and a lack of guidance (or misguidance and misleading information), millions of teens ignore those risks and suffer the consequences. teenagers are particularly susceptible to STDs. This fact is alarming since more teens are sexually active today than ever before. An entire generation is at risk, and the saddest part about it is that most of them are unaware of the dangers they face.
Teenagers must be given the correct information to help them realize that saving themselves sexually until marriage is the only sure way to stay healthy.
It is normal and healthy not to have sex until marriage. STDs are so common that it is not an exaggeration to say that most people who regularly have sex outside of marriage will contract a sexually transmitted disease. Our sexuality should blossom within the confines of a mutually faithful monogamous relationship. We need to reeducate our kids not just in what is healthy, but in what is right.
2006-09-20 08:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by zangwing69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. A 15 year old is too young to be able to see the consequences for his/her actions. You need time to be able to see that the person who you want to do it with is right for you, that they care and will stick around.
You will always remember your first time. So you want to pick a person worth remembering for the rest of your life.
And you have to deal with the emotional consequences. It is easier to tell if someone loves you before you let sex cloud the issue. Are you going to be able to handle it if they never call you again?
You can get a disease or can get pregnant. Using a condom or other birth control is not fool proof. Do you have the resources to be able to handle having a baby? Even if you don't have a baby, you have to deal with the emotional and financial consequences of having an abortion or putting the baby up for adoption.
2006-09-20 07:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Don't Know 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to say it depends on the person...
Ethically speaking, I would love to admit that 15 years old is much too young for sex, but there's a flip side to that coin (much as it is for most matters concerning sex & ethics). Women mature faster than boys, so it is more "conscionable" for women to feel they are ready for intercourse at a younger age, whereas for boys, they have no clue of the repercussions hasty sex can have.
I've known a girls who had sex early on (not with my, mind you; I had to "wait" until I was 19) , including a girl who had sex at 13, got married at 15, and finally entered the p*rn industry the day she turned 18. Obviously this is a special case, but it goes to show how "fast" some people are.
I would suggest you wait until you feel you are ready. If you feel you are ready now, at 15, then please make certain you take adequate protection measures to avoid STDs and pregnancy.
On another note, a very good (ex-military buddy comrade in arms) friend of mine told me he is very protective of his younger sister, and he owuld rather go out himself and purchase a dild0 or vibrator for her than have her have unprotected sex.
I guess the bottom line is how you feel about it. If you feel you are ready or not.
I myself would suggest you do have sex BEFORE marriage, because I've seen too many marriages break up due to bad sex. Experimenting before marriage is essential to find out what you like, and what you wish to avoid in the future!
Cheers!
2006-09-20 11:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is not as simple to answer as u ask in a sentence,
of course 15 is a little early age to have sex, but still i will say nothing is wrong in it.
u must have a complete knowledge of contraception and sexually transmitted deices (STD)
also understand that sex is just not the physically attachment it has have mental aspects also. u must consider future effects on your development.
legally it is wrong almost in all countries.
2006-09-20 07:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by chikuava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had sex my first time at 13. do i agree with that, well if u want to get into it all people say dnt have sex tell ur married an soo on. the ultimate decision is up to you. but PLEASE realize there are consequinces to sex. I am 21 years old i have one son who is a year old and i am currently preg again. its very possible to get preg, contract STDs, and several other things. having sex is a big decision and shoudnt be maid in a simple second. i suggest u ait tell ur ready, tell u are in love and want to be iwth that person, and think if u got preg would u want that the father of ur child, do u want to deal with that person forever. there are alot of things to think about. but if u do choose to do it, please take percautions, birth control, condoms, anything u can
2006-09-20 07:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,i dont think so coz sex is a natural thing and evrybody does it whether its 15years old or 1500years old.Dont worry enjoy and i suggest to have sex only with husband or wife and thats after marriage.Good Luck
2006-09-20 07:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by CG Soldier 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very wrong. You are still too young to think about sex at all. Wait until you are in your twenties, then you can start thinking about it.
2006-09-20 07:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by Shirley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is, you are to young, You have your whole life ahead of you
You could get pregnant, at 15 what would you do with a baby
Wait til you finish school
2006-09-20 07:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tracy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋