i love a guy since last 4 years. he knows this but dosent love me. i still love him ,think of him. for last 1 year i have not seen him . i have his mobile no . i have always made attempt to talk to him but every time he says i dont recognize you.i am not able to think anything beyond him. my studies have affected even my nature has become more irritable. please help me
2006-09-20 00:16:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know this is going to be upsetting for you, but you really need to let this guy go... he is NOT worth it, he doesnt love you so why waste your love on him? he is not worthy of your love, and he really doesnt care for you, so why do you want to affect your life and education for someone who is not important.... education is something you should be concentrating on for your future and you shouldnt be failing over some guy!!!
I think you really need to preoccupy yourself and start making more friends and not thinking about a guy you havent seen for a whole year, he doesnt phone you, so why make an effort.. your just making yourself seem deseperate.. honestly i know its hard, but you need to love someone who is worthy of your love and will love you back!!! x
2006-09-20 00:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I could just tell you that get over him and forget him. I know what I am telling you would just fly by your eyes. I loved a guy and he loved me (in his way) but he had a different nature and ignored me and was always with his friends, I had a period of 2 and a half years to get over him, and any body could tell me what they wanted but I never listened. Even if the little voice inside told me to let go I just kept on. I killed myself and the people around me. When the time came and I let go of him, it was as if my eyes opened and the world opened to me. I didn't see all the other doors that opened to me but then I was shocked about how much I have lost by spending my time on this guy.
3 months later I met a guy that was at first just my friend and then I saw a side of him that I would have never have see if I hadn't let go of the other guy. I am more happy then I ever was before, and it shows trust me, pleas do.
Don't mess your life up because some idiot cant even remember the beautiful you!! There are guys out there will to die for girls like you. Let go pleas do and you will see, the world and love will start smiling at you. Close that door and tern around and look at the others.
Go on and jump, it is the best you can do!!! Al my love and best wishes to you my dear, and may you find the love of your life!!!
Angel***
2006-09-20 07:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Sunshine Angle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you two date for a while? It appears like you are hungup on the reason you broke up? Think about the reason you broke up, what he told you. Remember that he rejected the relationship and not you, that two were in a different spot in your lives at the time you were together, you wanted something more serious he didn't. Though you may've been the right person it was just poor timing.
Good luck . . . counseling is also an excellent way to get past this.
2006-09-20 07:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u nishi? if u're less than 20, forget about him, it's just an infatuation. i'm not saying love doesn't happen below 20. but when u cross 20 or 23, u start understanding there are much more important things in life other than crush, infatuation and for that matter, love! so let him be where he is and forget about him. if at all he has some love towards you, he'll come himself and which is good for you. if he doesn't come, some one else will come in ur life who will be really loving you!
it's better to be loved than only be loving someone.
2006-09-20 07:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by genial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am suffering with same kind of problem.
I can understand Ur felling.I can't understand y he don't recognise u???U better mail me about this separately to my id - "vaibhav_1987_pieces@yahoo.co.in" .
I will really try to help u.
Any way if he cant recog. u then make him remember u by any incident or Ur any nick name then he may remember u.Then tell him about Ur self and when u saw him first time,what make u love him and lot of good and sweet stuff.If u r able to tell these things to him then he may understand Ur love.
Remember its not important that whom u love he also loves u.But this is important that u keep reminding him that there is someone who love him lot.
2006-09-20 09:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by Vk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no use running after a person in this manner, love is something which is good only when it is mutual, else it is disastrous,and never ever in history love has been imposed.
the more u chase him he will try to move farther.So stop this endless game or ruin your life.if you start ignoring him then there is a little hope for you(works some times - trust me :)
2006-09-20 07:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by pravin k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has made it clear that he does not return the same feelings then you need to let go of him. Distance yourself from him avoid him. Find someone else or find a hobby or community service to get your mind off of him. Do not waste away on some one who does not want you.
2006-09-20 07:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by memorris900 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
already u 've lost 4 years.jus use one or two more yrs and become a popular personlty in ur locale (may be 4 whole country).then go n ask him do u recog?
ths s the very simple way ..IF U LOVE HIM TRULY
2006-09-20 07:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just wasting ur precious time behind tht guy
if he luvs u,he must hv come to u very earlier.
its a long time now..no way 4 u
truth is ,to forget that guy n to live a happy ,njoying life
just start avoiding tht guy,he"ll notice it & 1 day he will surely come to u,keep njoying in front of him
2006-09-20 08:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might need professional help. You must realize by now that you can't make someone love you, all you are doing is wasting your time, and probably making this guy resent you.
2006-09-20 07:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋