they tease me (or any other girl) to outrageous limits and i plainly ignore them ...i'm scared 2 inform it 2 any1...
2006-09-19 23:33:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
See this is the common things with College Boys, etc. they are just playing with girls...etc... If there is no much problem for you just leave it....coz as the days go ahead it will be OK, like the boys class will finish and they go to another college etc. for higher studies...please ignore it my girl...as you grow nobody will tease you...
Or you can change your way...ie. find another road, route, etc. and also go with elders like father/mother/brother, relatives, neighbours, other girls as group, etc.
If you think even after few week it is not fine, you still feel bad, then inform your parents first and let them take a reasonable decision accordingly to the present situation in your locality with the local people, etc. even your parents can report to nearest police station, local body (Society leaders, Elected members of Council/Panchayat, etc.) and also to Media like New reporters, etc. and they will publish it in the news... thereafter it will reduce...same time inform the College Authorities, who is the most concerned of these boys?
I thinks this will work...remember to report to your parents first..
Best of Luck
2006-09-20 00:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by SA-bic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear dilkush,
I really feel sad for you and understand your problem.Pal, let me ask you few questions and you consider it very seriously.
q1: i am expecting some help from outside to sort out but boys will be boys they are everywhere and same problem will be there wherever you go ,even if some KRISH or a good samaritan helps you now , how will you solve it in a different place, ina different country?THINK
Q2: If you have got support of your family, take their help and report it in nearest police station else report this crime online or through telephone
q3: more you escape, more they tease, more you react - this is what they want, do not give your reaction and if possible - GO STARAIGHT UP AND STAND IN FRONT ON THEM AND LOOK INTO THEIR EYES AND BE SILENT , DO NOT TALK ANYTHING
Tell me honestly , are you enjoying this attention ?
You have to fight this battle within and outside- Good luck
s9consulting@yahoo.co.in
2006-09-20 09:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by s9consulting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your parents know about it?If no, tell them right away.
Secondly you can register a complain at your local police station.
Sweety you dont have to be scared.Once you step into the real world you will come to know that these things go on and you have to face them instead of getting scared.
2006-09-20 07:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter to the head of that Boys' college asking him/her to take immediate action and also mentioning that if proper action is not taken within a stipulated time what do you intend to do. (You can tell that u will take up the matter with the women's organisation etc.) Mark the letter with C.C. to the SSP (City), DM and local press.
I feel this will certainly work. Do let me know.
2006-09-20 06:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Yours Truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass it on as a formal harassment complete directly to the college administration. If you are intimidated to do it yourself, do it through your parents, or, just suck it up and do it yourself discretely. That ii comes from you, does not have to become public knowledge. The college administration should respect your privacy as a matter of course, but remind them in any case.
2006-09-20 06:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report it with police station. If they are just naughty guys. Police will make them alright in one go.
If they are Anti Social or Mafia guys talk about to your parents, they should talk to local politician he should talk to the police and then will stop distributing you.
The most safest way is to contact News channel tell these incedients they will make news out of it and action will be taken for sure.
2006-09-20 06:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Shaktii J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report it so your name is cleared and the next time you walk past just do something totally outrages either swear at them, walk straight up to one of them look him in the eye and just slap him or go to the extremes and flash them, they will proberly be so stunned at the way you acted they will leave you alone, boys are boys and they will always try to impress there friends by being "cool" so they dont consider peoples feelings do something extreme to them.
2006-09-20 06:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report them to your parents,the police and the college.
2006-09-20 06:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by eva b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better go near them and give them a good nice slap for teasing you and passing comments.
2006-09-20 06:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Yashna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
inform ur family members
tell ur father,mom to inform police abt the boys behaviour
2006-09-20 08:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋