I go to school with a extremly nasty girl who hates me for no reason. Shes in a class with me and was extremly rude yesterday and said to my friend Im only mean to people I HATE. It was so immature she was obviously trying to make me feel badly about my self. i've tried ignoring her but it provokes her more. I don't believe in violence to solve problems but I want to punch this bit*h in her face. What should I do. Thanks in advance
2006-09-19 23:30:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i ignored her all last year and this year too its not getting better
2006-09-19 23:37:01 · update #1
they only one i could really tell and would take action is our high school vice principal who was the discipilnerian
2006-09-19 23:49:01 · update #2
i do act like i dont care should i like llaugh at her when she does this cuz its so ridiculous?
2006-09-20 00:00:07 · update #3
Tell her to grow up and keep telling her
2006-09-19 23:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like at this point I would punch her in the face too... lol!!!! Ignore the guys comment about, "why don't you try growing up" because if he would have read the question all the way through he would have seen that you have already been doing that. But, bottom line don't let her walk all over you, no one deserves that. I don't know if violence is really the answer but you have to stand up for you. Good luck sweetie!
2006-09-20 06:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard one!! since you have tried ignoring her i would continue to do so, she will soon get fed up with no reaction.
Do you have mentors at the school who may be able to sort it out for you.
If you result in hitting her at School you will only get yourself into trouble.
I presume she may have issues going on in her life that she is finding it hard to deal with and may be trying to vent her anger on you.
There is no excuse really, just enables you to understand what may be happening.
2006-09-20 06:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by redditch b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what her problem is, she sounds like a stuip ***** your doing the right thing honey. I know its hard and you want to smash her face in, i would be the same. I think you are probably doing the right thing she will get bored soon and she is in your face because you are ignoring her and she wants you attention.
Good luck sweetie
2006-09-20 06:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one has a conscience-although some people have theirs buried deeep deep down inside...TRY being nice to her-it'll make you feel more mature, although you'll have to take some abuse from her anyway!Just persevere!Eventually she'll let up, because you can only be so rude to a nice person before it gets boring.This too shall pass...
2006-09-20 06:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by HumbleOpinion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to her really really nice, not kissing her srse nice just smile say hi be nice, it will annoy her but she has no ammunation then to attack u with and therfore she will get bored ,No matter what she does to prevoke you never raise your voice always talk in a calm tone with a neutral body lannguage. it will defuse her confuse her and give you the upper hand, no need to punch any one if she strikes u after u being nothing but nice she will be th one who ends up looking bad
2006-09-20 06:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by X2 epsilon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well the first answer u read was the very reason u really dont want to ask a question he didnt even see that you put u do ignore her now ignore that first answer any way/
my momma allways said to kill someone with kindness and if you can mangle them with manipulation/ what you need to do when you see her again and she comes in is sit by her. if you already do ...ok ay u are finished with step one/ now step two if she has on somethin that is new wait unil the cutest dude in that class is near by and say this.... " oooo girl i really like that/ u know i know u dont like me/ but i have to tell u / u always know how to rock ur ****/ i say that ur cloths are always together. /// now u are finisherd with step two/// on to step three if she aske anybody for somethin a piece of paper or anything/ be the first to give it to her./ then u are done with step 3 step /.now step 4 you wait until she is dippin in your conversation and u say something ts very embarrassing to you/ for example.... i really liked him but do not say a name just say this statemnt loud cause u dont want rumors from this *****// now say again loudly /// i like him but he doesnt like me and i try to call but he plays me out/ oh well i aint his type//// he told me his type is//////////NOW SAy what type the guy is interested in AND MAKE SURE IT IS ALL ABOUT THAT BITCHES QUALITYS AND HOW SHE DRESSES AND WHAT SHE LIKES SO SHE CAN IMAGINE THIS CUTE DUDUE YOU TRIN TO GET WITH AND SHE CAN GET HIM INSTEAD//// U HAVE JUST REEELED THIS STUPID . JEALOUS OF YOU ***** IN/// CAUSE U KNOW THATS WHY SHE DONT LIKE U SHE IS JEALOUS/ if you are black you must be light skinned abd pretty abd she isnt/// if you are white you must be popular and the boys like u more///// either way u got her in your hands now after class walk upo to her and say that you want to start a new slate ... tell her that u think she is mad cool and u want to start hangin wit her and getting to know her.. tell her that yaw need to squash all the drama and become a tag team aginst the others bitches in school and laugh and say oh **** i gotta go to make up anything and run // ,make ot look real and yell as u are running "think about it girl get wit me tommorrow!"
now watch and see what happens next/// u will be thanking me later
2006-09-20 07:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by lynnlynnlynnj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep ignoring her, eventually she will go away when she can`t get a rise out of you. Just act like it doesn`t bother you, and you have better things to do than waste your time with her. I think she`ll stop.
2006-09-20 06:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by Spiritled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what she does not expect and show her 'like'. I would have said love but I think it might be a bit too much now but if you can do love her.
It will be difficult but it will make her change into a better person.
2006-09-20 06:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch her in the face! I know violence is not the answer but people can only take so much! I bet after you beat her a#$ she will leave you alone!!!
2006-09-20 06:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her u know the saying if u cant beat them join them she may one day be ur best friend take heart
2006-09-20 06:40:32 · answer #11 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋