Ive recently become friends with my ex's new girlfriend, the thing is we were talking about him and it seems weve caught him out on loads of lies, and i told her everything, she says shes pissed off hes lied but he makes her feel special, but i dont want him 2 do 2 her what he dun to me, the thing is me and her have loads in common, we have similar personalities. and thier relationship is the exact replica of what ours used to be, is she not leaving him because she is only 16 and valnurable, he made me feel special too, mayb thats his trick, but i kno hes been seeing someone behind her back. is he making thier relationship a replica because he still loves me but knows i wont take him back, he still wears my tshirts and has all of the photos we took?
2006-09-19 23:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by vicky s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hes 22 and shes onli 17 next week, when we got 2gether i was only 16, and hes taken both our virginity. is it control
2006-09-19 23:29:59 · update #1
just so were clear i dont want him back, but we have history and i still 5% care about him, but she only wants to be with him coz he makes her feel special
2006-09-19 23:36:38 · update #2
right for the 5th time, i aint waiting for him to go out with me i dont want him back, ive got a new bloke, dont u peoples read properly i just dont want her to get hurt like idid,
2006-09-19 23:49:17 · update #3
the girls young and thinks hes the love of her life weve all been there soon enough it will click in her head and she will realise what a plonker he really is
you need to ask yourself this though are you concerned because you want him back or do u genuinley want to help her if you want to help just be there for her when she needs you
2006-09-19 23:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...assuming your quite young. everything you're saying is based on your jealousy. why should you care about this girl? you cant really be real friends with your ex's new woman. its unnatural. your pissed off he is getting something which in your eyes he doesn't deserve. and if he's seeing someone else, and her, regardless of whether or not he wears your crap, he doesn't actually care for you. he just knows he can keep you hanging in there in case he ever needs you again. cuz some people are assholes just because they can be! and you, love, are proving him right by getting all up in his new relationship. the opposite of love is not hate, its indifference. move on, youre worth more.(PS, not trying to be cruel, just want to point out that i did absolutely all the same things you did when i split with my daughters dad, and he MARRIED a fifteen year old when he was 21)
2006-09-19 23:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy feels like a jerk yet he additionally sounds quite honest approximately his emotions in case you ask him. So why no longer ask him why he has contacted you? that's actual he must be feeling in charge. or maybe he's feeling down and desires to talk to you to spice up his self-well worth. perhaps even he thinks adequate time has handed that he feels that's suitable to touch you and be pals back. One issues for constructive although, you will no longer understand except you ask him. What have you ever offered to lose?
2016-10-15 05:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best not bothering with this girl whilst she's with this guy ,move on it's not healthy.Both of you know what he is, unfortunately there are lots of people out there like him including women.The only ones that are being stupid are the people that put up with it.The unfortunate thing about being young is that your not experienced enough to spot a ****.By the people don't take virginities, one actually gives it away.
2006-09-19 23:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by Countess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be friends with this girl.....you want revenge on the ex.......can't fool this chic, sweeetie. If I were you, I would back off, mind your own business and get on with life. What you are doing will end up backfiring and you will only make your life worse. He is through with you and you should be with him. Why would you want the creep back anyway......he is a big time liar and those kind never change. Stop wasting your life and your time! Stop pretending to be this girl's Fairy Godmother!!!
2006-09-19 23:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should leave his new girlfriend to get on with it. You can't teach someone a lesson, they need to make mistakes for themselves and learn their own lessons. Theres a possibility that he may still want to be with you, but if your not interested, why worry about it!
I think you should back away from the whole situation.
2006-09-19 23:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i under stand what you are saying their is two thing you can do `1 keep out of it or you my get hurt don't you think you have been hurt in the past by him? 2 tell your friend what a **** he is and to dump him as he is just a user and be their for her when she dose get hurt and to help her to get over him.then both of you go and have a night out on the town. well good Luke to you both
2006-09-20 00:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 21:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot tell her what she should do....as a friend you can tell her that he is cheating on her... rest is upto her.. i guess she also wants to make her own mistake and learn from them like you did...
2006-09-19 23:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are best getting out of that situation... you don't want to get caught up in his weird fantasy world...
2006-09-19 23:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋