For the last 5days or so I have been feeling my right lower abdomen and below my belly button hurt, I have been feeling tired all day long. Today I have a big headache and I feel like I want to vomit.
I had unprotected sex during ovulation but we used the pull out method, except on day 17 of my cycle (that is not during ovulation) where he kept going, my next period should come in around 4 more days.
Please any advice, serious answers, thank you
2006-09-19 22:20:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Either you wait until you rperiod gets here, or you go out and buy a test.
I don't blame you for thinking your parents will kick you out of the house for doing this as what you are doing with this boyfriend is very irresponsible and dangerous. If you want to have sex use a condom no matter what your boyfriend says or wants. This is to protect your own ***. He isn't the one who would get pregnant. Show some respect for yourself!
2006-09-19 22:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by mama mia! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetheart, I am sure you are feeling very scared right now, but getting upset won't help you. It will only cloud your judgment. First, you need to get the facts, so do the test. Second, you need support, so if it is true, talk with someone you can really trust who you think you can rely on for good advice. Third, make a plan. Let the man know what you intend to do and, hopefully, he will help you too. This is not the end of the world. You got into this situation because you did not pay attention to the warnings most adults follow. Now if the time for you to step up as an adult and handle this with common sense, maturity and dignity. Do what is best for you and your baby if you are pregnant. You are a woman now, not a baby yourself. You can do this one step at a time. Get support. Make good choices. Be smarter now than you were before.
2006-09-19 22:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax and wait to see if you're period shows this month. If not, get a HPT. Stress will cause you not to have a period so try to relax. Hopefully, you're not pregnant, but in the future, you need to rely on a more effective means of birth control or try abstinence. The pull out method is about the worst method of birth control out there. Like someone else said, you should worry about your parents' reactions before you have sex. If you're old enough to be having sex, then you shouldn't be worried about what your parents think to begin with. However, I suspect that since you still live with your parents, you're probably not old enough to be having sex.
2006-09-19 22:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN get pregnant on ANY day of your cycle when you have unprotected sex. The pull out method RARELY works and that is only when those who are using it have used it for YEARS and are aware of one another's bodies COMPLETELY. Besides pregnancy unprotected sex can also spread HIV and STDs...you should have thought about how your parents would react BEFORE you CHOSE to have sex. I suggst you see a doctor.
2006-09-19 22:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think it's a flu or a cold but if you want to be on the safe side, buy a pregnancy test from the pharmacy or a drug store, if your period is not showing up.
Why do you believe that if you are pregnant your parents will chase you? Where do you live?
2006-09-19 22:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by ngiapapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, the sickness and headache could be due to your nerves.
Or pregnancy. I know I felt very tired in the first couple months. My belly never hurt and I never got sick.
Take a test---if you are due for a period, a test should give you your answer.
2006-09-19 22:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a pregnancy test at home. If you are pregnant, confront your parents with the news. Expect a range of emotions, but if they love you, like I think they do, they will help. After all, is their daughter and grandbaby they will be sending out of the house. If you are not pregnant, try to avoide this situation again.
2006-09-19 22:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by ginger13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for your period and then take a test if you miss it.
I would say there is a chance of pregnency because it does not take an ejaculation to release the sperm. They can be released before also without the boy's notice.
2006-09-19 22:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by switch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are trusting you to bring up the next generation in a loving and caring way, is this how to go about it? Get a grip on your life.
2006-09-19 22:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sangmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the damm test why torture yourself like this. If your not pregnant, next time don't be too stupid to have unprotected sex again. Or risk getting pregnant, the choice is yours.
2006-09-19 22:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by ******* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋