i have many friends but they all keeps talking about girls or are busy in there Gf. Is this realy a freinds or a teenager life.
2006-09-19 22:17:26 · 18 answers · asked by Rammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know its a little difficult situation. I'm a girl and have passed through this situation.first of all u should make Ur friends understand practically that teenage love is just fun and flirt.Having a friend (girl), is not a big deal neither a sin. instead of getting isolated from them, try and understand their feelings too. u should realise them that u are a good friend. also u must realise how bad u feel when they ignore u. i know u may think its a girlish thing or very emotional but i hav applied and succeed. now i dont feel that my friends ignore me.
all the very best
suchetana.
2006-09-19 22:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends stab you in the front.
--- Oscar Wilde
A true friend is one who helps you see the truth, even if it hurts.
A friend who sticks by you through thick and thin.
"What is a true friend? Often, I have struggled to understand what makes one person there, truly, more than the next. We all go through life with different people by our sides at different times in our lives. But some people distinguish themselves. They are true friends.
There are times in all of our lives when we need the comfort and solace of someone who understands completely, and for some reason, continues to help us when we are at our worst, perhaps even exhausting them.
To me, a true friend understands. Not the kinds that say they will be there for you and then are purposely. They are the kind that say they’ll be there, then are, and amaze you with how devoted they really are.
Going through a time of crisis reveals that your real friends are. It’s not to say that those who are not there for you in these bad times are not good people or good friends. But you get to see their true dedication and moral character when you face adversity.
But your real, true, friends are the ones who come through with flying colors, when you do not even have to ask. There is something magical about the bonds of true friendship. Though you may not have many kinds of these people in your life, be thankful for the ones who are there. The people in our lives are a blessing.
When going through rough times, don’t expect everyone to understand - you will just be let down more if they do not. Reach out to your friends if you want them to understand, and give them the opportunity to help. (They aren’t mind readers!)
If you do not find someone to understand, you know that the person has not defined themselves in your eyes as the kind of person who will be there through thick and thin.
You can still value people in your life who are not "till the end" friends. These people have just as much to offer, and it should be said that each person in your life is there for a reason. If a friend just does not get the idea that you need him or her, try and understand what that person is going through, or how they view the relationship. Don’t be afraid to confront your friend to see if everything is okay. And most of all, don’t expect everyone to run to your aid. Everyone is busy with his or her own lives.
Rest assured, however, you will find a friend who will be there for you, and you will never truly be alone. Open your eyes to the people in your life and look for someone who you can depend on.
Most of all, return the favor! When someone goes out on the line for you, you should do the same. Thank the friend(s) who have helped you through rough times and let them know how much you appreciate all they have done, and who they are."
A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
2006-09-20 05:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is someone that is there for you in good times and bad. A person that you can tell anything and it will go no farther. A true friend doesn't expect anything from you but friendship.
2006-09-20 05:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend (to me that is) is somebody who doesn't live in your pocket but when you see them it's like you just spoke yesterday, somebody you can call on and will be there like a flash, somebody who will give you an honest opinion no matter how much you don't want to hear it, somebody who is reliable and there when you need them.
2006-09-20 06:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by aza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person who advices u to be on good path,to concentrate on your career,and also helps you with solid support and action in times of need! stay away from time wasters,gossip mongers,and specially social snakes who use their charms and mannerisms to lead you into hell !! God ,your family,your teachers,your education are your best friends in teenage and youth!!
2006-09-20 05:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its you who has to be true to your friend, let him/her decide if they are compatible with you, free with you, trust you, confide in you, share with you, feel happy being with you n so on.
If the opposite person is true & likes these qualities in you, he/she becomes a true friend.
Yeah its a teenager life.,can also say this is a growing phase.,experiencing phase, knowing phase, exploring phase, etc.
2006-09-20 07:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person , who never seek any rewards from me , although; he is ever ready to protect me, even when I am in sleeping state, is indeed my true Friend.
2006-09-20 05:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by dipu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A TRUE FRIEND IS THE PERSON WHO HELPS U AT A TIME WHEN EVERYONE DESERTS U ...WHO SHARES IN OUR JOYS AS WELL AS SORROWS IN LIFE N THE ONE WHO IS WILLING 2 HELP U AT ALL TIMES....WHO CARES 4 U AND WHO R WILLING 2 SACRIFICE THEIR HAPPINESS 4 OUR SAKE!!!
2006-09-20 05:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by rd22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my philosophy..
"Who are your real friends? They are the ones who walks in when the rest of the world walked out on you."
It's true.
2006-09-20 05:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Hani H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a true frnd is d 1 who understands u
2006-09-20 06:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋