when we were boyfriend/girlfriend, he is always the one who waits for me whenever we have a date or just meeting. now that we're married he always makes me wait and i hate it! he always have a reason for this and i think its valid because he is a hardworking person. but i hate waiting! actually im waiting now in the office for him to fetch me. and he's late again!
2006-09-19 22:08:53 · 22 answers · asked by leviosa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you were in love before wedding, he had one priority! His love, that's U.
Now he is married and his new priority is making your life comfortable!
Changing priority should not be considered as changing attitude! Earlier he was in heaven when he loved you and was unmarried!
Now he is on earth with realities facing him! Co-operate and things would be fine!! All the very best!
2006-09-19 23:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you should talk to him about. Let him know how you feel about having to wait. Sometimes he may have a good excuse and it really is out of his control, but not every time. Could be now that you are married he is attempting to control you... makes him feel important (and makes you feel insignificant). I don't know, but reveiw the rest of your relationship to see if there are more issues like this.
2006-09-19 22:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ever u have a meetinf wth ur husband go late on the fixed time eg: if ur date is fixed at 5:30 to at 5:45 or 6:00
2006-09-19 22:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by suhani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a bf/gf we feel insecured somewhere deep within. we always fear that our gf/bf will be lost if we are not at the designated place at time...usually we are there earlier.
While married, no matter how much delayed his arrival is...you've to be there, he knows this...thus no hurry.
His being late today in picking you up may have some genune reasons...well it's to be on a case to case basis.
2006-09-19 22:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by sameer s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paybacks a ***** uh? Listen, I am not sure exectly what he makes you wait for, but if its rides, talk to co-workers, or people around you. Call a frined or him while you wait. If its a problem in other areas in your life, then sit his *** down and ask him what's going on. Make him wait until your done explaining your feelings and compromise, compromise, compromise.GETFIESTY
2006-09-19 22:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by florida 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi baby i'm just like u i hate 2 wait but it's the way the life is but u can tell him and may be he will change his way
2006-09-19 22:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Muslim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since people tend to have the same work hours, you need to organize your time so you are busy doing something until he gets there. you are making too much of this ... are you losing money? he is coming to get you at the height of rush hour, right? traffic, also he just finished his own workday ... your expectations are not realistic
2006-09-19 22:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is bad manners to keep alady waiting
2006-09-19 22:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the two things:ensure you love you and he loves you,and continue your waiting;if not go away,
2006-09-20 01:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by marko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you wait you will probably have a headache.
2006-09-20 07:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋