I loved a girl to whom i taught and i was already a married person she got married to a man who after 5 years died . she is now a widow with 2 children and i am also a father of two. Shall i now propose her and marry?will it be good in peoples' eye?when i was teaching her long back i use to love her but never expressed and i feel so that she too love me but could not express. she once discussed about the intercourse with me and i explained in detail to her but not PRACTICALLY. so please advice
2006-09-19 22:04:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When did you last teach her - five years ago? Then there's nothing at all wrong with pursuing a relationship with her, and anyone who disapproves needs to learn to mind their own business.
Teacher-student relationships are very wrong if they happen while the student is still in the teacher's classes, but five years later? Pffft. Go for it!
2006-09-19 22:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Title is Second Marriage, so I will assume that you are a divorced Father of two, I also must assume that you are no longer her teacher, with this in mind, depending on your Culture, if you love her, then ask her to marry you.
What other people think and perceive is something you must accept and deal with.
Evaluate your feelings towards her, are you wanting to marry her because she is a widow with two children, and you feel Sympathy for her, or are your feelings still after all these years, genuine and wanting to build a future with her and her children.
Whatever you decide, Good Luck.
2006-09-19 23:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your english is so bad I can't imagine you teaching anything.
I think you are a middle aged man who is playing with his gnarled erection.
I pity your poor wife and while I'm at it stay away from the poor widow you old sick pervert.
2006-09-19 22:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by serah d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a minute
let me clear this
You want to marry her bcoz you love her, it has nothing to do with "people's eye", first of all.
you said you are married , rite? and you have kids also
so does that means that you no longer love your wife?? soon after you find your old love?
How cheap and selfish,
Just think about that lady who is your wife and mom of your kids
and an advice for you be happy with your wife bcoz she deserves it!!
2006-09-19 22:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jill-mommy of a cute lil fellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's living your life? you or other people? if we all cared about what people thought, we can never be our true selves, can we? we'll keep adjusting ourselves to fit into society. how can we be happy with that?
love doesn't come easy. once you have it, keep it safe and right next to you. never let it out of your sight.
good luck!
2006-09-19 22:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what makes u and her happy as we base our lives on what people have to say we can never ever achieve happiness.
2006-09-19 22:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she agrees yes.
but it is not correct.
its a teacher student relationship.
what about age difference?
2006-09-19 22:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is ok, go ahead. u do not live 4 people
2006-09-19 22:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and what about your wife? Just dump her? Whadda guy!
2006-09-19 22:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by dotell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill everyone exccept her and u b fine.
2006-09-19 22:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋