with him now she came to my house this morning 5 times trying to get him to leave with her . he doesent even know what he did after the bar let alone that he was even with her now im getting stuck in the middle because i live with him and asked me to tell her that he is not home when he really is should i just tell her that he doesent remember what happend that night and what ever did it ment nothing
2006-09-19 21:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by little one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds to me like she's a stalker......How did she know where he lives?
Best thing to do is tell her he's not interested.......But he should do this himself it's not down to you. She might think you're involved with him and start being a nitemare for you.
I wouldn't get involved with this situation......Sounds dangerous......
2006-09-19 21:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by spunkybadger69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't know what he did that night, my suggestion is to tell him what happened so then he knows the truth -- he has to handle his business himself with this girl - gently let her know that he doesn't love her, but can be friends (I guess). It's not right to drag you in the middle, because it can cause problems, confusion. I think he should be blunt with the girl telling her he didn't remember what happened that night, and he just found out but to say it didn't mean anything, and that he was sorry, something like that -- she is probably obsessed so it's best to be upfront about it.
2006-09-19 21:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by MICKEY MOUSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, be brutal and be cold but don't be mean. She needs the truth like a bucket of icy water to snap her out it. He on the other hand needs a knee to the groin. No one forgets a shag no matter how drunk! Liar
2006-09-19 21:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by whysochilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to tell your friend to clean up his own mess. You're not his mother, you shouldn't have to be put into that position especially when you feel so uncomfortable doing it. He's a big boy now, let him take on the responsibility that is rightfully his.
2006-09-19 21:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell hin da truth. dont hide anything otherwise it will create misunderstanding. best of luck with ur situation.
2006-09-19 21:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to give left-right to the guy.
2006-09-19 21:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋