Do we sometimes tell ourselves that we have a close friendship when it is really one-sided? I sometimes think this after a big move or after a friendship has faded.
2006-09-19 21:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, I do think that there is a time in everyone's life where they feel that they have a really great friendship/relationship and end up finding out that it was all in their minds. You're right, it usually is after a big move or when the friendship/relationship is slowly dying down and the person is in denial. Quite sad actually.
2006-09-19 21:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by LTD 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe-
That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
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That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and, you must forgive them for that.
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That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
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That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
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That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
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That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
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That you can keep going long after you can't.
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That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
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That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
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That regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
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That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
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That money is a lousy way of keeping score.
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That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
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That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.
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That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
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That just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
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That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays have passed .
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That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
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That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
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That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
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That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other, And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
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That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
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That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
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That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
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That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.
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That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
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That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
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That you should send this to all of the people that you believe in.
I just did.
**Friends are like stars, You can't always see them, But you know they are there!**
2006-09-20 04:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if I felt that a friendship of mine was one sided I would walk away.
2006-09-20 04:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure of it, I used to share a flat with a girl who was totally convinced we were best friends when I could actually drink her blood and made no secret of it.
2006-09-20 04:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have a girl freind who im going to send away we loved each other for seven years since we were seven werew now fourteen and we love other people
2006-09-20 04:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by andrew b 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes they do.
all the people r liars to themselves. to others ofcourse sometimes.
2006-09-20 04:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes....i just tell myself over & over again...to err is human....
2006-09-20 05:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by james ian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we do , not only sometimes but always...
2006-09-20 04:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it happens in rare cases
2006-09-20 04:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋