My boy friend has a habit of masturbating. He is 22. He does it twice daily, n many times even more than that. is there a problem in that? for future also? will there be a problem in having kids or anything like that? he does not smoke, nor does he drink or take drugs.
2006-09-19 20:46:34 · 26 answers · asked by sonia luvs c_u_m 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
sounds quite normal from a physiological point of view. Nothing weird about the frequency, and no risk about future fertility, etc.
however you seem to know a lot about it, which bugs me a bit. For example:
- does he tell you about it openly, or does he do it in places where this is obvious to you? Doing it is one thing, keeping the partner up to date on masturbation sessions, either explicitly or tacitly, is another
- does his doing it affect your sex life? I mean, does he ever use having masturbated as an excuse for not having sex with you? THat would be bad.
As for having a baby, as I said above, masturbating even a lot will not in any way affect his future ability to conceive a baby. But obviously if he masturbates regularly AND you are trying to have a baby, then this is bound to lower his sperm count and therefore lower the chance to have a baby, a bit.
Hope this helps
2006-09-19 20:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by AntoineBachmann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, when he chooses to masturbate, is it because he feels he requires a sexual experience that you cannot or will not provide, or does he prefer masturbation to having sex with you?
Does he feel he needs both you and his hand every day?
This will not affect his fertility, but it brings into question if he is fleeing intimacy with you to be in his own fantasy world and if so, what is he fantasizing about? Other women? Orgies? Men?
There may be something you can never give him that he seeks in masturbation. You might never know. It is emotional, if not sexual cheating if he doesn't share his secrets with you.
2006-09-19 20:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by ljlemer 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The healthy average is 3 times per week for masturbation...
The effect on sex that he might have premature ejaculation out of his masturbation habits...
2006-09-19 20:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to stop masturbation and try building up of a fine body by going to gym.
2006-09-19 20:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by gangadharan nair 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It very well could effect his sexual proformance.. But, it seems strange to me that if he has a girlfriend why is he masturbating 2x times a day anyway? He may have an addiction of sorts..
2006-09-19 20:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Thin White Duke 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boy!!! He's a freak! Masturbation itself is too much... it's a sign of weakness, really... It doesn't compare to the real thing!
2006-09-19 20:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only problem he'll face is his addiction to masturbating or to sex
2006-09-19 22:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some non-sexual reasons for masturbation ... he - or you both could try to find out if this (also) has to do with: boredom, depression, isolation, ....
2006-09-19 22:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by free download 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal for a 22yr old.
No and no.
Lucky you, found a healthy guy who doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs.
Rejoice.
2006-09-19 21:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is just normal.
2006-09-19 21:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋