he has a girlfriend, they've been together for a while, but i talk to him all the time, and i really like him. im not trying t steal him or anything like that i wouldnt do that, but i think i am falling for him and its so hard! what hould i do?
2006-09-19 19:34:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's good that you're not going to try to steal the guy. That's bad karma. If he was meant for you, he'll eventually end up with you if you do things right. Be patient.
In the meantime, look around for other choices. you may find someone unattached who may be better. When you are a good person, good things will happen to you.
2006-09-19 19:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Erize Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to put yourself through so much pain?
You said yourself that he is someone you can’t have, yet you are allowing yourself to fall for him.
There is nothing to say that you shouldn’t like him ‘as a friend’…
But from what I can see, you are wanting more than that.
I appreciate that you said you would never try to steal him, but I suspect that if you were offered the opportunity to get closer to him, you would jump at the chance.
You have asked what you should do…
I think you should ‘respect’ his decision to have the other girl as his girlfriend, and accept that if they are ‘happy’ together, you shouldn’t do anything to interfere with their happiness.
I appreciate you were probably hoping for better advice, but I am not going to suggest to you anything that is going to see you get hurt.
The way it is at the moment, you are causing your own pain, by allowing yourself to get too emotionally involved with someone you know you can’t have.
I can’t stop you from doing that, but I can try to save you from further pain.
You have a lot of ‘love’ to give… That ‘love’ is precious, and shouldn’t be wasted !!!
2006-09-20 02:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is His girlfrind your friend? That would really complicate things
BUT...
If you know that you know, that he is happy with his girl, my advice is to distance yourself from this guy.
Look around and see who else is waiting.
There is probably someone you havnt even considered, who is just right for you.
Dont set your sights on something you know you shouldn't have.
Take the time to look around, and wait and see what ( or who ) is over the horizon.
2006-09-20 02:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by TOP DOG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldn't tell him you'll just complicate things.
Plus if you care for him you wouldn't want to hurt him or his relationship.Don't risk breaking up their relationship.
Talk less and if you two hang out his girlfriend should be there.
Good luck
2006-09-20 02:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by kandn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for your life while you still can, Girl. You're surely in for a heartache. Take it from me. I thought I could handle it. That was wishful thinking.
2006-09-20 02:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not unusual to love ur friend and to actually fall in love with him but u dont want to hurt anyone, esp urself so divert ur attention and hope u will find a man like him.
2006-09-20 02:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going out with some other guy, as early as now dont let yourself be that close to him... coz in the long run you surely be hurt
2006-09-20 02:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-20 02:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by DocTim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋