Not sure if I am posting this in the right section but I figure someone has got to have some experience in being pregnant and the entire child support/custody/and rights. Ok. I have my court hearing next month and the mother of my child is filing for full child support/sole custody/ and offering me visiting. Dude! I don't want visitation because I ain't ready to be a dad. I wanted her to have an abortion or consider adoption, but no she had to be selfish and keep the child. We only dated briefly. I don't have a stable job and trying to make it as an actor. Dude! In 3 months I get paid $2,000 - that's barely anything! I didn't put down my entertainment jobs because I want to protect myself so they dont get my monies from those jobs. If I bring evidence and solid evidence she is harassing me and get a friend to be a witness will the judge go for it and let me off the hook. Sort of like giving her a restrainting order so we don't have any contact. Do I have a case?
2006-09-19 19:31:11 · 7 answers · asked by ryanbballin11 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I'm 27 and she saids she is doing this all for the child blah blah...how can she be doing this for the child? Child support goes to the mother and she'll probably go shopping. All my friends sleep around all the time and never get anyone preggo and I sleep around with a girl I really liked and knock her up! WTF!!??
2006-09-19 19:35:27 · update #1
How is child support affect if you have custody or not? LIke if I have no custody and give up my parental rights. Will I have to pay more in child support?
2006-09-19 19:55:45 · update #2
DUDE! JUST TO LET YOU KNOW THIS IS MY ****** FIRST TIME POSTING THIS QUESTION ON THIS YAHOO THING AND IT WILL BE MY LAST. DON'T GO ACCUSING ME OF BEING SOMEONE ELSE BECAUSE THEY ASK THE SAME THING OR SOMETHING LIKE IT. CHILD SUPPORT AND CUSTODY IS A HARD THING TO FACE....GET A GRIP AND TAKE A CHILL PILL...I WAS JUST ASKING A QUESTION...JEEZE...I KNOW NOW NONE OF YOU ARE RELIABLE SOURCE...AFTERALL I SHOUOLD OF EXPECTED THIS FROM THE INTERNET!!!
2006-09-20 04:17:17 · update #3
dude!!!! no way!!! you have no case!! they don't care how little you make, there is a state minimum that you have to provide her with or they will a) revoke your drivers license and or b) put you in jail for non compliance of a court order. and even if you don't list your "acting" jobs, if you used your social security card to apply for the jobs (which you most likely did if the agency you work for is even fairly credible) they will see how much you make through your tax records. so what you need to do is be a man, get over your fantasy about being an actor, and take care of that kid, regardless if you hate the mother or not.
2006-09-19 19:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by drtyfckr 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you didn't want to be a father should have crossed your mind BEFORE you unzipped your pants. YOU made your choice the moment you dipped your wick now it's time to grow up and pay for your responsibilities. The fact that YOU wanted her to have an abortion or give it up for adoption doesn't enter the picture, what YOU want ended the moment your sperm hit her ovum. I doubt very much you can prove harassment, you're just a self centered spoiled immature brat who isn't getting his way and you're going to throw a tantrum about it. The courts in California don't care...time to grow up little boy because you don't have a case...and by the way quit trying to re word this tirade in order to try and get the answers you want, obviously after three or four times you should be smart enough to realize nobody is going to side with your sorry butt.
2006-09-19 19:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope sorry buddy. But if u don't pay they can do stuff like garnish your taxes by using you SSN, and suspend your license, jail you, etc. If they have your SSN which they can get eventually they'll just garnish your taxes. Child support also gets reported to the credit bureaus so it's the same as having a credit card, if u don't pay your credit score goes down. And that's all here in California, I work for the courts and just filed myself...You can have a restraining order against her but u still have to pay $$$.
2006-09-19 19:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Xander's Mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry "Dude". If you aren't ready to be a dad then take steps to prevent it. The woman has full rights to have her child, you are the selfish one. The judges are wise to guys like you. with holding financial information can land you in jail. You play you pay dude, get a grip and hone up.
2006-09-19 19:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by missmoon_1953 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how many times you post this question (I know it is the same person posting too..we aren't stupid!) You are going to keep getting the same answers. I don't even think you are serious. Quit playing on the computer and leave the questions to someone that actually needs help!
2006-09-19 19:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whaaa!!!! you're having a baby and now you're crying about it. grow up. and stop crying about this website thing too.
2006-09-20 15:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by unfamoustonyaction 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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YOU SLEPT IN THE BED, NOW MAKE IT!
SORRY FOREST....YOUR LEGS ARE BROKEN...YOU CAN RUN FROM THIS!
HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA ....L-O-S-E=R!
2006-09-19 19:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋