For people who get teased in school?

Question

I always get teased in school. Its like the people who tease me devote most of their time thinking of a way to embarass me. When they get embarassed, they usually put out their anger on me in a way of teasing me even though im not the one who embarassed them. I'm a true believer or God. I believe that If you do good things, good things will happen to you. In this case, If I do good things, then they wont tease me anymore. One of them just got punished by God in a way of injuring his knee. But that didn;t wok either, he's still teasing me. What should I do? Cant avoid them cause theyr my classmates. Pls help....

Answer 1

Selfish people do that it means your classmates or friends are not good. Well, you have right thinking and you do good things but it depends on them and i think they don't care of u same thing happend with me but not now. some children have this kind of a habit also. but there is no way for that.

giving you an advice whatever they do don't care just ignore and show that you don't have any effect of that and they will also stop. i did this too. and don't leave your good habits Best of Luck Lonez.
Nice name. :-)

Answer 2

I was reading at your question and there's something that really call my attention it is when you mentioned that God punished him....I do not think God punishes people...God is love and even that they are your enemies God love them too, God love good ones and bad ones, when things happen to us happens because life it is a school where we must go through bad times phisically or emotionally hurt, God only ask us to hold on to him and have the faith that everything will pass and he will not forsake us ........the embarrasing moments it is something that we all in life has to go through sooner or later and then those things are what make us stronger than ever, maybe you are suffering right now but in a future maybe weeks, months or years, those things will not bother you as much as now because it will be more responsabilities or more important things to worry about as maybe a future career or maybe a new person in your life etc....just acept life the way it comes of course without letting people abusing it ....and pray with faith!

Answer 3

I know it's rough, but the best thing you can do is to just act like it doesn't bother you. They're just mean kids, and you don't deserve it at all. One day,I'm sure it'll let off, but maybe not. Just hang in there, time goes by so fast and you'll be out of school. You have what? 18 yrs, to have to be stuck with pretty much the same people, and how many years do you live after that? Just look at this as God's test for you, and maybe paybacks will get dished out when they're stuck in the same town, doing nothing, and you're somewhere living a dream life.

Answer 4

Ya just gonna have to tough it out. I was teased way too much in high school also. Had the 3rd worst gpa in the graduating class. Just keep proud and standing tall within yourself. Have faith in yourself. It is tough and you already know. But trust me...these are the worse years of life. It only gets better as you get older.
I am in my 50's now.
Here is what has happened in the mean time:
One of my teasers was arrested for performing live sex acts.
Another one is in jail for armed robbery.
Another died of a brain tumor.
Another is an inventory clerk.
Another is a manager of a cheap motel.
I served in the Army got a Bronze Star with rank of Sergeant.
Got a BS in Economics.
Became a senior analyst in data communications for a 7 billion dollar a year corporation...and living a nice life.
My teasers are like still in high school in a way.
Just tough it out kid...it gets easier after high shool.

Answer 5

I would talk to a school counselor about this. She will have better experience and advice on how you handle this. I think you have a good foundation in your relationship with God to handle it. I am saddened that you are going thru this and that kids can be so cruel. I am sure you have a few friends and I would stick together with them. Focus on that which is good in your life and try to let their ignorance not effect you. That is easier said then done and I am in no way making light of what you are going thru. I got picked on too and you do get past it when you get out of school. I am not sure what grade you are in. High School was better for me than middle school. Hang in there and God bless you!

Answer 6

OK, I was homeschooled, so I probably can't answer this as well as other people, but I think you should do whats the hardest thing to do...love them back

As a Christian you know you can pray for you to have the strength to do it, and once you start loving them, I don't think it'll be easy to embarress you.

I had sorta the same problem at work, nobody liked me, and I was always the one people would talk about, sometimes in front of me, but I started to talk to them like they were my friends, and I let them all know (through the grapevine) that I loved them all, and even though they were mean they all had a special place in my heart. Maybe its just for memories, but there is a special place for them lol

Answer 7

Act like you dont care that they are teasing you. Laugh at the things they do instesd of getting upset.Or you could embarass them in front of a lot of people, then they might realize how they are treating you isnt cool. Just because you act out at them doesn't mean your a bad person, look what god did to satan!

Answer 8

A true believer of god must have faith. Only god can change how people look and speak to you. Total devotion to god. I was one of those teasers back in the school days, and i did it for pure entertainment. So my advise would be just ignore them and they'll soon get fed-up and pick on someone else.

Answer 9

being teased in school is really tough and it feels like it is never going to end. you need to find a way to deal with these people. whether it's talking to someone (a teacher, an older student or a friend), coming up with a strategy to deal with them (other than violence) and learning how to deal with losers without taking what they say to heart. in my experience the people who tease others are often the most miserable and unhappy people inside and they need to pick on someone else in order to feel tough and better about themselves. you will go on to lead a fulfilling life and they will remain bitter and twisted. things will work out, karma will get them and you'll be better for this experience. good luck.

Answer 10

Kids can be cruel, and while I wasn't teased in school, I wasn's insanely popular or anything.

You need to be friendly, but not in a "creepy" way. If you show that nothing they do bothers you, it won't be fun anymore and they'll stop. Kids sense insecurities so if you act shy or depressed all of the time, they are going to feed off of it.