Me and my bf joke around alot, and we call each other all kinds of bad names like:b*tch , wh*re, c*nt, mother f*cker, and we even call each other racist names like he calls me a mongrel or a mutt or a n*gger(im multi racial 1/2 black, 1/4 native, 1/4 french) and I Call him a honkey or white devil, or peckerwood and guido(hes a white italian)
2006-09-19 17:41:52 · 35 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
we r both 19
2006-09-19 17:44:28 · update #1
theres is nothing wrong with it. im white and my husband is black and we do the same thing but not in public and not with anyone else around. because people will think that it is okay to do it to. so be careful with it. we have been married for 8yrs so dont sweat it is okay.
2006-09-19 17:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by "big dogs wife" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its fine with you two then have at it. But just realize that you're not the only ones who will hear it when you're in public and others might have a bad reaction to some of those names being used.
2006-09-19 17:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds kind of harsh for anyone, I think. But if you both do it to each other and don't seem to mind, and you're not hurting anyone else in the process, then I guess it's no big deal.
If only one was doing it, though, and the other one was getting his/her feelings hurt, then I'd say to stop. If not, then I guess that's just your pet names for each other. Weird relationship, but hey! Whatever makes you happy!
2006-09-19 17:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-19 18:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya
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you might take something he says offensively and vice versa and that probally wont lead to a good turn out
also come on that ridiculous you guys should be able to have fun w/o cussin eachother out
and other people... if you care may get offended if you guys do this in public a lot
2006-09-19 17:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by jane doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and myself do the same thing, and there is no harm in it as long as it is done in jest. Try to make sure it does not take over from showing the love you have for each other.
2006-09-19 17:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is bad. That's not a good way to joke around at all, especially for someone you're supposed to care about.
2006-09-19 17:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I guess it's cute but you could also end up arguing one day and the name calling could come up not as something that was funny and cute but something that either you or him actually found offensive.
2006-09-20 10:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Meowmixtape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep it between you guys and try not to disrespect each other in public.
2006-09-19 17:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why would that be bad. If you both do it to have fun with each other I see nothing wrong in it.
2006-09-19 19:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by p.g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋