I'm writing a story about a rape and I'd like to include this detail if the woman can feel it. I hope that this does not offend anyone, that is not my intention. I also had no idea where to put this, so I'm sorry if it is in the wrong spot.
2006-09-19 17:08:12 · 11 answers · asked by Ace B 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
In response to logan, I felt that more people would be offended if it was implied that I was writing smut (which it would be if I asked a question like this and then didn't qualify it), than people who understood that I was writing a serious story about a serious issue.
2006-09-19 17:27:50 · update #1
No you cant feel it, but you can put it in your story to give it more details. Its details like that, great uses of symbolism, that draws the reader deeper into the book!
2006-09-19 17:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being raped doesn't hurt any more than rough or rushed sex, unless you're being raped by a horse. The pain of rape is more mental than anything else. Many women feel violated, as if, the part of them they supposedly had the most control over, was lost.
I'm a writer myself. If I were you, I wouldn't focus on the rape act but moreso how the victim (or the rapist, depending on your point of view) felt at the time of the incident. The thoughts running through your characters' head will dictate how long the sex act actually lasted. Often times, rapists don't get to finish the sex act out like he was at home. He probably wouldn't *** at all just be in it long enough to establish a feeling of control over the woman. Again, that depends on the mood of your character and the environment. Some women would chose to relax and let the guy finish, hoping not to aggrevate him and that she'll escape with her life. A woman that's fighting back, I don't see a guy being able to control his stroke enough to get his nutt off.
To answer your question though, no, a woman can not feel the actually *** even if nothing more than the head is inside her. She feels the pulsation of his penis, his rhythm change, or change in his breathing pattern, which indicates he's cumming or at least about to.
2006-09-21 15:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer, Yes she can. Although I am a man but nearly every woman I know has said/indicated that she can feel when a man ejaculated. Some even he has a condom on.
However, I cannot see how that information is relevant to a rape story. A woman is raped no matter if a man ejaculates or not.
2006-09-20 00:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by GERALD S. MCSEE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hope this helps, a vagina has no feeling after about the first 3" as a result of having no nerve endings.
2006-09-20 00:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by luther 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda - but it's the way the penis moves that can be felt - not so much the come itself - because there is all her lube too. But if she stands up she can feel it coming out of her. Most women lie and say they can feel the come - but it is already moist inside - so not really.
2006-09-20 00:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello; Yes at times,you can feel pulsing and warm and wet. Only I don't know about rape, I don't think you would have that thought at that time. Too scared.
2006-09-20 00:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HOW DOES THIS RELATE TO RAPE?
I can say that yes a girl definetly can feel it, and it can even enhanse the sexual experience...but never in rape.....
2006-09-20 00:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Little Wifey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparantely, you've never had a woman in your life to ask that question. What's up with that? How old are you? For your info, when a woman gets raped she cannot feel the man come inside her, because she is cramped up and in pain. Hope this helps.
2006-09-20 01:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Yes you can feel it.The mans penis starts to pulse and then you feel all the wetness and warmth of his ***.
2006-09-23 14:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes
2006-09-20 02:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋