I was raped by 4 guys when I was 14. Physically my virginity was taken, yes... but mentally... who feels that I was a virgin after that rape?
2006-09-19 16:55:06 · 13 answers · asked by Elkie 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
To the people who are doubting that I was raped and the people who think I should report it, please read the question. I WAS 14, that was ten years ago. Since then, I am able to word it in a simple question. It took me a long time to come to terms with this... so save the judgements for someone else.
2006-09-19 17:09:06 · update #1
Rape is an act of violence not sex. You have not had sex yet. Actually you can have you body restored by a plastic surgeon . mentally you have never made love with some one you care about and by choice.
2006-09-19 17:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by timex846 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Elkie.it very simple.
Since u did not concent to any sex so u did not have sex.sex was enforced on u.no mentally u r as much a virgin as anyone else.Just because some guys did something to u does not mean u should feel sorry about it.It is they who shud be sorry.Forget that such a think even happened and enjoy life.There is always a morning after every night.
best of luck
:)
2006-09-19 17:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jitendra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was also raped when i was 12 years old and i have always considered myself a virgin till i had my first relationship (consensual) I know how you feel it was several years before i told anyone what happened. I kept it inside and i didn't tell anyone till i was in high school. I have forgiven the person that did that to me. God Bless
2006-09-19 18:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ladybugbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all I am so sorry to hear this, bless your heart. Usually sex is between two people who both want it, I feel you are a virgin because you have not had sex with someone at your consent.
2006-09-19 16:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in this world of physical evidence, where the word mental doesn't really matter, your not a virgin whether you wish to accept it or not.
2006-09-19 16:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by KindomCome 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Virginity is just a symbol of your physical purity, but it should not be above everything. Forget it and be great in whatever your strengths and beauty. Life is yours.
2006-09-19 17:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by sastra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't believe it happened that way. You just don't come here on Yahoo and say you have been raped. You may have had sex, but I think you said ok. Anyway, at 14 it is rape regardless if you said ok or not. And yes, you are no longer a virgin.
2006-09-19 17:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
you are a virgin as far as i am concerned.physically you were robbed and you can honestly still say i am going to stay a virgin untill i am married. put it behind and out forever. it was not your fault. bless your heart
2006-09-19 17:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Billy T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'll feel for that, be more confidence to face at the future ,but do not need to turn around such the violence matters..be confidently can help you more powerful and spiritual
2006-09-19 16:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should report to Police and those who have commited the crime must be punished. Speak to someone who can help you. My heartiest sympathy is with you.
2006-09-19 17:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by manishaabhai 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋