There is this guy with whom I've totally fallen in love. He's smart, cute and helpful. But the problem is that he thinks of me as a smaller sister (he's 2 yrs senior). He cracks jokes with me and we have fun together. I wanna catch his attention. HELP!!!!!
2006-09-19 16:42:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You know, just be yourself. If he's ever gonna fall for you then he should like you for who you are. Sometimes all you have to do is act your natural self. If you're not comfortable flirting or sending him signals that you like him, then dont it will only complicate things. Do what you think is right and when you're together just have fun and get to know him too,ask him questions...once he opens up then he should start taking you seriously.
2006-09-19 16:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by june_ellis86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They best way to catch someone attention is not to catch their attention. If he sees you as a little sister that is because you are letting him see you that way. You have the opportunity to be whom ever you want to be. Just don't be all up in his face and don't pay him as much attention as you are doing now. Joke and laugh with him but at like you have other things to do. Flirt but then don't flirt. And stop getting so excited when he comes around. You can smile at him but stop acting like a little girl in a candy shop. Do you understand what I am talking about?
2006-09-19 16:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by sweetlee725 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG i was in this situation but all u can really do if someone thinks of u as his little sister is act it out dont DO NOT try to act older cause then hell act like aw my little sisters all grown up and he'll see u older but still his sister try flirting with him and tell him kinda how u feel ease into it cause if u flirt ot and say i have fealings for u that r more then friendly and he thinks of u as family then that will be acquard for both
2006-09-22 15:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really hard situation because once a male can joke with you and thinks of you as a little sister....its hard to make him change his mind again. You could start joking in a sexual manner or maybe periodically touch him on the shoulder or face....just to get his attention. Just be yourself and leave little clues here and there. Your a smart, creative woman....I know you can come up with something!! You Go Girl :)
2006-09-19 16:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the reason why you're so love sick is considering you enable decide for all the incorrect motives. And your previous love is the single you're destined for. yet on a similar time you probably did no longer take it once you had the prospect. You enable your person self get interior the way of your destiny. even inspite of the incontrovertible fact that this person is love sick additionally does no longer recommend you are able to desire to bypass out attempting to make it artwork with a married guy. you are able to tear up something and reason lots extra discomfort on your salted wound.
2016-10-17 07:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go with tiffany nd sweet one.they r right.just don't crack jokes with him but attract him .nd stay calm or he will realize it nd if he likes u ,he will treat u like a child.nd wait that u should tell the[lovin]thing.attract him so much that he will do what u tell nd he shold propose u first before u get a chance.nd heyy..in which world r u stayin .in the news i red that a man of 169 years married a 45 year girl.let him fall in love with u in no limits.this was tried for me by many girls but only 1 succeded as i don't get attracted but many get attracted to me.but my gf is hot nd sexy so she could succed after a hard time[i m cool ,freaky nd a lover of music]so many girls like that.best of luck.
2006-09-20 00:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cool freaky dj. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to fall in love with a guy who treats you like his smaller sister.Be matured.His not the only guy in this world.You will find much better than him.If he treats you like his sister then just be thankful.Treat him like your brother too.Well,its really hard a decision for you but someday you will get over with it.
2006-09-19 21:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what if he thinks of you as little sis you will ruin your relationship with him if you want to date him.Just wait until he notices you in a girlfriend way.Hang out with him and hug and touch him as much as possible,and that may get him feeling something different about you.
2006-09-19 16:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he thinks that your are a little sister to her but let me tell you something if you want to get his attention towards yourself call him and say you want to meet him. tell him to come at a place which is usually not known to people.when he comes give him a smooch and explain him that you love him
2006-09-20 02:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by SHASHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ask him questions but be careful I did that and he ended up telling me i was to young!
2006-09-20 06:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by kitti_nikki2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋