even though I try to get my grandkids to play with her they just don't want to. Is there anything I can do to help her? I really feel sorry for this little girl, she has nothing wrong with her at all!!
2006-09-19 16:37:16 · 12 answers · asked by ladynamedjane 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give her a job around your house. Ask her to help out with chores for a hours a week, even pay her a little bit.
You can't force anyone to like or play with her, and that's always the worst part. I know it's hard to see her alone, but she'll be fine. She probably has friends at school, and maybe some time she'll bring some home.
However, the best thing you can do is offer her something to do. Being her friend is fine, but don't expect her to use you as her only friend. It's not fair to her at all. She needs kids her own age.
2006-09-19 16:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be things that she does to be mean to the other children when adults aren't watching. Children will soon get tired of that kind of treatment and ostercise the guilty party from playing in group activities. That is only one scenario, there may be pressure from a popular girl who feels threatened that if anyone plays with the other little girl then she won;t be their friend anymore and then the dominoe effect occurs. Peer pressure is a powerful thing these days. It takes a brave soul to smile and say hello to the outcast and to even play with them. There is risk involved but so often can lead to wonderful friendships.
2006-09-19 16:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a thought, but, do your grand-kids offer any reason(s) for not wanting to play with the girl? There are youngsters with the "Eddie Haskel" syndrome, who seem ideal when they're around adults and become either malicious or sneaky or devious or something when they're with other children. That may not even be close, but there's gotta be something out of focus to make her unattractive to playmates.
2006-09-19 16:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go meet her mother an dhave a chat. The little girl may have something going on at home that you don't know about. Get a feel for her family before trying to hook your kids up together. Godloveya.
2006-09-19 16:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you right now that what you think is cool and what your grandkids think is cool are way different. Didn't your mom make you play with your little sister or the weird smelly kid around the corner. My mom did. I only have one son so he don'g have to worry and I don't let him have any friends that way dont have to worry about gangs and drugs etc, He is very good looking but he'sis a nerd because all he does is play video games. let you kids pick their own friends and let her mom worry about her
2006-09-19 16:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take her to the park or zoo, invite the grandkids to come along but try and pay attention to her so she knows that someone does love her. take her to the ice cream store or just sit on the porch and play checkers. it is usually enough for a child to know someone cares. an "ugly duckling" always turns into a "swan". Not to say she is ugly but one that hasn't come into her own quite yet. just make sure you let her know how you feel!
2006-09-19 16:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some kids will be little dolls when adults are about but total demons when they aren't looking. She may be bossy or nasty or something like that. I know a little girl like that she kicks other kids when they are around the corner or threatens them, horrible child.
2006-09-19 17:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 13:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by ayoub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is nice and then maybe she is shy. Put makeup on her and dress her up really kool. Then maybe the kids will like her. But im the same way because i look at girls all the time and i hate them. Im sad!!
2006-09-19 16:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by IM Myself 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Throw a small party for all the kids on her behalf.
2006-09-19 16:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋