I am feeling depressed?

Question

I graduated 2 months back and i am stilll unemployed.I feel so depressed and i feel like i'm being a burden for my parents.What should I do? Has anyone ever felt like ending their life coz they haven't found a job? I feel terrible within me.please help

Answer 1

Depression or not, you're going to have to get out there and knock on doors until you do find a job!!! That will make you feel so much better. Go to the state unemployment office and maybe they can help you with your resume and job search. don't give up!!! Godloveya.

Answer 2

Never feel terrible of yourself, 2 months is just the tip of the iceberg, there are people that are out of a job for as long as a year and had to be supported by there families or from some other source. Don't give up in looking for a job, once you are determined to find a job, the right one will show up, and if your parents had not complained to you yet, then you are not a burden to them, unless you are not out there looking for a job, just remember that there are others out there that don't even have a place to stay, hold on and keep pressing on, trust in God and he will look after you, no matter what and how it seems, something will come up soon, you can only be out of a job for so long. I encourage you to not let you emotions and thoughts carry you away. Be optimistic and be strong, you will make, just like i do, i was there and done that, being unemployed is but just for a while, believe that you are going to get a job and when you seek you will find, when you knock it will open and when you ask it shall be given, so go ahead live life so that you can give life to someone in the near future that will be going through the same thing as you.

Answer 3

Now feeling terrible about being unemployed is all right. Considering suicide because you don't have a job is a bit too emotional a response. You were promised a degree if you completed the course. You got that. Now you have to sell yourself. Go to your university placement office and get referrals or leads. Also visit the unemployment office in your area. They have job match programs. Private employment agencies can help you hone your skills and/or give you temporary assignments that will give you more to put on your resume. Also add some volunteer experience.
If you just graduated high school, then you need more education. Enroll in junior college. Beware of certificate programs that are advertised on television. Check their success rates beyond their borchures.
Don't be afraid of entry level positions. The CEO of Con Ed electric company began working in the mailroom.
Pick your head up. You have accomplished something. Celebrate that and keep putting one foot in front of the other in your job search. You'll be successful eventually, and I'm sure your parents are already proud.

Answer 4

There are a lot of people who are unemployed, but they don't threaten to kill themselves over it. Two months is not long enough to find a job, since there are so many people out of work. Just because you've graduated, and I assume you mean college as opposed to high school, doesn't mean you'll jump from the classroom to the board room. It takes time to find a career. In the meantime, the fast-food restaurants or car washes are always looking for young people to help out. It's easier to find a job when you already have one. Even menial, low-paying positions are better than none at all, especially when you're just starting out in the employment field. So just take any old job to begin with, even if it's just sweeping floors at Burger King. And be patient. Eventually you'll find the position you're best suited for. Even multi-billionnaire Bill Gates started out by tinkering in his garage with computers. You have to take the first step up the ladder before you ever reach the top.

While you're still living at home, you don't have to be a burden to your parents. I'm sure they don't feel that way. Help out around the house and be as useful as you can. You're no more a burden now than when you were going to school. So quit feeling sorry for yourself, and don't pass up any legitimate opportunity that comes your way, even if it's not what you want to spend your whole life doing. Start at square-one and do your best. Good luck!

Answer 5

How the heck can you move out without a job? (I'm referring to the person who posted above me).

Anyhoot, don't let yourself get too down. I'm in the same situation as you... graduated college in May and haven't found a job yet (I also just moved to another state). I have 2 interviews this week, so what keeps me from getting depressed is when I feel like I'm actually making progress (by getting interviews). I've had 5 interviews so far, so by the end of this week, I'll be at 7 interviews. I heard that it's easier to get a job in the fall since the summer graduation "rush" is over with. Just keep sending out resumes and always include a cover letter. Also, follow up with every resume you send out. Here's an example of a follow up letter:

Dear Hiring Manager:

I submitted a resume last week for the Jiggalo position advertised on monster.com. To date, I have not heard from your office. I would like to confirm receipt of my application and reiterate my interest in the job.

I am very interested in working at Company X and I believe my skills and experience would be an ideal match for this position.

I have resubmitted my resume in case it was misplaced. I can also provide references if needed. I can be reached at [phone]. I look forward to hearing from you.

Thank you for your consideration.

Sincerely,
Your Name

Answer 6

I know exactly how you feel. I just moved a state away to be closer to my boyfriend. I sacrificed a good job doing what I wanted (massage) and left my family. I'm living with his mom and step-dad. I've lived here 3 months now and still haven't found a job. It's so frustrating. I was only going to live here until we got married, but now it's pushed back so I have to find a decent enough job and move out on my own. It's really not fair to me, but I have to do it. I don't want to live w/ my boyfriend and he thinks I should get an apartment and live on my own before we get married. You just have to keep looking around for something to turn up for a job. I went on Craigslist.com. They had a lot of different stuff on there. You can look anywhere in the states. It's like a newspaper. I actually found a job there, but I replied when it was too late. So just keep up with something online like that or a regular paper classifieds. Hang in there. I know that I am.

Answer 7

I think suicidal feelings are very common, so don't think you're alone. I suggest you use this interim time to do some productive things that will help your family. Can you do some clean up jobs or make a nice meal for them? Weed the garden? Clean out the fridge? Organize the junk drawer? You have the time to do the things that your other family members don't have time to do... be their extra set of hands for a while until you find your niche in the work world. Being a happy, cheerful son is the best gift you can give them -- even better than going to work!

Answer 8

Your certanily not going to find a job when your dead are u? What a waste + it will more of u burden on your parents because they will probably blame themselves for not seeing the signs and trying to help you etc. Everyone at some stage in the life finds themselves feeling depressed its how we deal with these situations that define who we really are. Keep your head up and keep looking - it has only been 8 weeks you'll find something. Don't forget have to start at the bottom to get to the top. Hope this helped

Answer 9

Hello there beautiful spirit. You are worthy. You have the power of love inside your heart and that makes you worthy. Do not ever forget that. You are not judged on your abilities. The unemployment levels are higher than normal, there are problems with the automotive companies and it is trickling down affecting the US. Give yourself time. My husband was unemployed for a year.
You will never be a burden to your parents. They love you. My sons will never be asked to leave my home, as I would not wish to be asked to leave their home when I am an old woman.
Now, call a friend... or someone whom you can talk to... tonight. You need to talk to someone who will listen. I also recommend you check with your insurance company to see if they cover counselling... everyone should have a non-biased person to hear their feelings at times like this.
Take care and know you are loved.

Answer 10

It does feel bad when you are looking for a job and you can't find one. You can feel useless, discouraged, etc.
Don't give up. It's often when you aren't even looking the offers come up.
And when they do it's usually 2 great ones at the same time.
Just make sure you are getting your resume out there and you are answering your interview questions the best you can.
Also make sure when you go in you are not letting the 2 months off affect your attitude.
Don't worry about your parents either. That is what they are there for - support.