for open minded women only.......why is it that.......?

Question

women are easy to recognize when another woman is being a nag or a bit*h but they never can see that in them selves when they are doing it?

thank you open minded women, you know who you are and it is you that are datable,we all have faults and i now have spent 3 months reading men bashing here,so it evens out, but you sad ones always need the bigger slice of the pie, what i said is a fact, and it my friend is not a stupid question, and remeber, sexist is over used and is a 2 way street, for you honest girls, i thank you, for the rest of you, go get your cake and eat it too

Answer 1

for the very same reason that men can recognize when another man is being a control freak or a bastrd, and they never see it in themselves... that's about as open minded as I can be.. but I know that I'm being a bit*h.

Answer 2

Sometimes its easier to see something in a stranger or acquaintance because ur not emotionally involved in the reason for their behaviour. Whereas when ur pissed off about something its a lil hard to step back n look at urself, cuz ur so wrapped up in the problem or reason.
That applies whether ur female or male.
Sometimes its a matter of identifying a trait in others that u don't like in urself; so another expressing that trait is an annoyance or worse.
Sometimes in the case of co-existing (especially early on) the habits of another person can be very frustrating. The nagging occurs when:after ur 'housemate' has been asked to change the behaviour,or a compromise behaviour has been discussed n agreed upon, then the original problem behaviour relapses nbecomes a pain in the *ss again. That's when u get 'told'.
It kinda depends on the context as well...
hope i demystified it a lil 4 u. Good Luck, i think u may need it. lol

Answer 3

Every person thinks they are a good driver and a reasonable person - it is in the throes of carlessness or stress that we become otherwise, and it is natural that none of us notice - we are too busy being angry.

It is akin to not being able to see the forest for the trees. It is the same reason that men can hear about another man's insensitivity and wince, but then go home and be insensitive and not notice it himself.

We are all doing the best that we can, brother.

Peace!

Answer 4

I KNOW exactly when I am being a bit*h and most of the time it's when I'm PMS-ing. I usually tell my husband "baby' I'm being a bit*h for the next couple of days... please ignore me ....and I have to say he's pretty cool about it. But then there are woman who are simply bit*hes for no reason what-so-ever and I despise them. I have a friend who is a constant biatch and I feel terribly sorry for her husband....because deep down I know he feels embarrassed by her...

Answer 5

A lot of us know, some don't realize it until she already said, or did it. Also, you never know just how you look through other peoples eyes. No one person views another person the same way as another person views them. Same thing goes with opinions.

Answer 6

The same reason anyone can see flaws in others, but remain blind to their own faults. She's a *****, I was wronged and I have a right to speak up, you know?

Answer 7

Why is it that men are so quick to criticise women, but don't see any faults in themselves such as being a male chauvanistic pig.

Answer 8

Some can, I know that I usually can.

This question is stupid and moronic. Sexist.

Oh, was I just being a b****?

Answer 9

This is for open minded men only....I suppose that they can't see their own problems for the same reason most men can't see theirs.

Answer 10

Does being open-minded mean buying into your possibly erroneous assumption?