okay...so there's this guy who asked me out. he doesn't speak english. he only speaks spanish. i dont speak any spanish...only a little bit but not enough to talk to him. well...then there is this guy who i like alot and he was going to ask me out. i'll feel really bad if i say yes to him and not to the non speakin english guy. what do i do?
2006-09-19 15:29:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
oh....i dont know the guy that well that doens't speak english, but i do know the other guy. not well, but i know a lot about him.
2006-09-19 15:45:54 · update #1
OK... who do you like the most??? seems to me you dont know either one of these guys...dont rush into relationships with ppl you dont know because your heart could be broken in the end. and i know how you feel in this situation since im there all the time telling guys i dont feel that way for them and it hurts us both...but why would i waste my time being with someone i dont like??? i dont and i speak my mind...if u like a guy and he likes u...take it slow...let him know. dont keep feelings hidden for anybody but never move fast. you sound like your still young so keep that in mind, dont try to play adult when it comes to relationships and your feelings. just be yourself. and make your own positive choices ;-) also remember having a boyfriend isnt the biggest thing you need in your life...being alive is and being happy. most boys are fools and care only about themselves LOOK OUT and make sure you avoid those nasty boys at all costs
2006-09-19 15:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like the non-English speaking boy? If so go out with him. You might even want to go out with him if your not quite sure if you like him or not. It may turn out that you will have a lot of fun and enjoy his company. Just because he can not speak English doesn't mean you wont be able to communicate. He had to be able to ask you out some how. If you have a bad time chalk it up to a learning experience, and be happy that you wont ever have to wonder about what if. If you don't like him then tell him no and move on.
How do you know that the second boy was going to ask you out? Are you certain he was going to?
If you know for a fact ( threw the second boy himself and not someone else) that he was going to ask you out what stopped him from asking? Is he afraid of a little competition?
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2006-09-19 15:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by Parisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a tangled web we weave, lol=P
I'd go with the guy I like if I were you, plus you mentioned that he WAS gonna ask you out anyway, right?
That'd seem like the right choice although I feel kinda bad for the non-English speaking dude, I mean just because he don't speak the language he gets the boot, a little unfair don't cha think?
*shrugs* I don't know what to tell you... I guess follow your heart, but if you need to "let go" of either one... just let him down gently, it hurts to be rejected.
Best of Luck.
2006-09-19 15:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would go out with both guys with a group of friends and try to hang around them in group situations. I would watch the way they treat other people, and talk to them as friends and get to know them. I wouldn't make any kind of physical attachment to either one of them, not even holding hands. I would see how pushy they get about the physical thing. If they get pushy about it, I would back off altogether because that means that's all they want you for. Latino guys especially you have to watch out for - because in their culture it's really all or nothing. In their culture, you're either really prudish to the point of practically waiting til you're married to even kiss someone, or you're a total player and you crank out babies left and right. Regardless of what language he speaks, you should expect a guy to respect you and not treat you like an object to hang all over and get feel-good feelings from and then throw away with the trash. Know what I mean? Any more questions, email me.
2006-09-19 15:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tonya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no to the person whoam you would have an incredibly difficult time communicating with because you do not speak the same language.
2006-09-19 15:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by robbet03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get to know the 'non speaking english guy' a little beter and then make your descision
2006-09-19 16:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by tarapainter10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with both of them instead of tying yourself to 1 person... Good luck!
2006-09-19 15:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with what feels right. do what feels right for you -put yourself first in some cases...i know that sounds mean...
2006-09-19 15:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go with both. i heard latino make great lovers ;)
2006-09-19 15:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever ur heart says
2006-09-19 17:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋