2006-09-19 15:15:01 · 32 answers · asked by wusabi12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hang on to your hat! I am about to explode on this one!
How can someone treat a soldier like that? How can a woman just screw around while her husband is off to war? He is putting his life on the line every minute of every day and she is so self-centered and greedy that all she can think about is getting laid by someone?
What kind of cheap tramp would have that little respect for someone in the armed forces? He is thousands of miles from home and hoping to hear from his loving wife to brighten his day. Meanwhile this tramp is sleeping around and showing no respect for the vows she spoke. She should be the one shipped over there and let him stay home. She doesn't respect the values for which he is fighting. At least he understand loyalty and duty.
2006-09-19 15:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband is in Iraq right now. And I would never think about hurting him. You have to be a strong individual to be a military wife. We have the hardest job in the military. Who do you think have to keep everything together, play mommy and daddy. Stay encouraging to our husbands. A military wife job is hard work. And she just may not have been cut out for the job.
That's very sad to hear cause those guys need us. I wouldn't dare sleep with any man outside my husband.. My husband put his life on the line for me and you today and the only way I can repay him is by sleeping with somebody.. No, that don't even sit well with me. It's very selfish and demeaning. Our soldiers have more things to think about outside a unfaithful wife.
Support our Troops. They stand behind enemy line and die young and old for all of us.. Without them where would we be... And with out a military wife what motivation do some of them have...
Good Luck, Half- My-Heart-Is-In-Iraq............
2006-09-19 15:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by The'Truth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear so many of my friends men and women worry because they just don't know what their spouse is doing day after day in Iraq..... That communication is so essentual to keep the trust going because even the strongest marriages are beat down hard by a year-long deployment and the fear is on both sides. If this happened to your marriage, I hope you two can either reconsile and rebuild or go and find your true soulmate....and not all spouses cheat, and from what I've noticed around here on post is that cheaters are really looked down on and deservedly so. Take care and be safe.
2006-09-19 15:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she had no idea what her marriage vows meant in the first place. She gets lonely and instead of trying to find activities and hobbies to bide her time, she goes out and cheats instead. Women like this give other military wives who are otherwise faithful to their husbands, a bad name. There's something severely lacking in them and it's usually their morals.
They should be ashamed of themselves for being so selfish, only thinking for themselves while their husbands are off somewhere, fighting a war for their country. As a military wife myself, I find it disgusting that these women would stoop down to this level. And this is the reason why I don't hang around with the so called "wives club". The lot of them are a disgrace!
2006-09-19 15:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my ex husband was in the Army, I was amazed at the cheating wives. I didn't understand it. It was almost like a game to them. There wasn't a war when he was in. But they did go train for a month every year. And sometimes a couple of weeks here and there. They wives cheated then too.
I was even more amazed at the supposed friends of these husbands. As soon as my husband left I had his "friends" knocking at my door. One friend came by every few days to see how I was doing. At first I thought that was nice of him. Then he started saying things he shouldn't be saying to me. And always wanting to give me a backrub. Then he would make up crazy reasons why he had to come to my house to shower! So the single guy "friends" are just as guilty as the wives.
2006-09-19 15:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by danadeville 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. I am the wife of a Vet. Marine. No one can answer that question and your wife my not even know why she did it. I will never tell anyone to get a divorce. Pray and seek counseling. Read 1st and 2nd Corinthians together, pray together as a family. Seek the Lord for His guidance and He (God) will give you peace. I do pray for you and your wife, and I hope that everything will be alright. Only you and God know what is in your heart. If you pray and you feel God telling you to leave, than follow what He(God) reveals to you. Just remember no matter what happens to forgive. Who are we that God can forgive us of our everyday sins, (which none is greater than the other except for Blasphemy against the Holy Spirt. ) are we better than God that we can't forgive?
2006-09-19 15:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Selah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She must have been really lonely and some creep saw that and took advantage. We all get lonely and want someone to confide in and comfort us. I'm not condoning what she did, but nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes. You need to ask her what was she feeling before and after it happened. Does she truly regret betraying you? A good relationship takes a lot of work, so get to it.
2006-09-19 15:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Still a Sexy Momma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bored and lonely and she can't talk to him on the phone when she wants in order to get that "release". It's a terrible thing to do to a guy when he's off putting his butt in danger for our country. Some women just don't understand that, nor do they know how to be faithful. A woman could do other things to get her mind off of sex like participate in group activities with other women or at her church.
2006-09-19 15:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by danikatspecial 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women get lonely and i understand that the divorce rate is high when there is a war. As wrong as it is being alone not knowing if someone is coming back is a hard thing to deal with. It takes a certain woman to stand by her man while he is at war.
2006-09-19 15:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Because she wasn't much of a wife to begin with.
2006-09-19 15:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by littlevae73 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋