What would u do if you found out your 14 year old son was interfairing with your 9 year old girl?

Question

1 leave it alone
2 kick him out
3 call the police
4 get the boy some help

l found my self in this boat, l would like to know what other people would do.

Answer 1

Get the boy, and you're self some professional help !!

Answer 2

Interfering how?Like how she is raised.Well you cant really leave it alone that would cause it to get worse. Hes only 14 so definitely do not kick him out. Unless he is physically hurting someone don't call the police. So I guess that would leave get the boy some help there is probably a reason he is doing this.

Answer 3

Talk to him first. One on one and ask why he's doing this. Don't judge, it'll be hard but listen first. If he feels that you're the enemy then he'll never open up and it'll be hard for him to trust you.

Then of course, talk to your daughter. Ask her how she feels about this. Don't forget her.

Tell them both (but separately) that you'd be visiting a psychologist or a psychiatrist or any other professional for help. Go with them with their talks if you can and if your son and daughter will let you because it is possible that the root of this problem is within the family.

Good Luck. These are some tough times but there are ways to get over this.

Answer 4

Being a father of a girl,i would kick his *** first.Then get him myself and my daughter some help.This is a family issue.No i would not leave it alone,i may consider kicking him out,but the law says that i am responsible for him until he is 18 or 21.I'm not sure which one.Call the police,I don't know,but he has to be held responsible for what he did.

Answer 5

i had that done to me as a child by my brother and now i wont acknowledge him when the family gets together and i always thought he needed help he need to know that that is very serious and it cannot be allowed at the same time you may want to make sure nothing has been done to him but dont do it alone make sure you have a professional to talk to and try to be there for both of them because this kind of behavior will continue if not dealt with and hang in there OK

Answer 6

if you meen sexual i would confront him and explain to him that was wrong and then ask if any one has ever done anything like that with him in the past sometimes its common for this to happen to children around those ages some one might have influenced him and he also might be having a strong hormonal change remember there kids there still learning so be catious how you deal with this but dont betray either one of them make sure there both ok they are your kids your the parent so your the law make it so teach thrm both and realy think this out

Answer 7

first of all i would get him some where else to stay for a while. i would not bring him front of my daughter.
then i would tell social servies, they know how to deal with boys in this situation,
he might have been molested for him to do this, so get some help,
dont call the police, he will be very angery with u now and u with him but think straight, he isnt really going to get better in jail.

Answer 8

What do you mean by interfering? If it's abuse in any way - physical or sexual, then you need to get him OUT of the house right away before it continues. You would also want to get him help, but you don't want to send your daughter away because you don't want her getting the impression that she did something wrong. She'll need help too to deal with what happened.

Answer 9

4. Get the boy some help

Answer 10

Best set him in his place, and get him help and I am sure your daughter will need some help as well. I am not sure what the police can do, it could cause you to loose your daughter. But definitely put a stop to it.