ok well one of my friends likes me and im fien with that and yeah he says things like he thinks im cute and that he likes me and that he finds me attractive but like sometime during this week he said that he checked me out like he looked at my chest and my *** and the way my body figure was! and eyah i didnt know he did that until he told me and hes like 2 years older than me and when he says things like that i dont know what to say i mean i dont like him looking at my body or anything and when he says those things i dont know what to sya cuz i dont know if i should be like ummm mature about or just say that i dont like ppl looking at my body i dont want him to think that im a baby or anything i jsut dont knwo what to say when he says those things? and i dont want him to like be like sheesh whats wrong with saying those kinds of things so what should i do because i dont liek when ppl say or criticize my body cu it makes me feel like crap what should i tell him?
2006-09-19 15:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you like from California..........anyway take it as a complement and at the same time just say to him I wish you wouldn't say that because it's embarrassing.
2006-09-19 15:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell him how his comments make you feel, it could lead to real trouble. There's nothing wrong with your body and plenty of guys will be looking. Just don't let others coerce you through flattery or other means. You know where you stand, make sure he knows too. its not likely that you would be happy with someone who doesn't respect where you are at. Defending your views is mature. Respecting others is mature.
2006-09-19 15:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by thrag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, you know, you are my friend, and I really wish that you wouldn't say things like that, because you make me feel very self conscience. Tell him this,away from your other friends so that he doesn't feel embarrassed either. He may think that ALL girls like being talked to that way. If he doesn't respect your wishes, I guess you will have to avoid or ignore him.
2006-09-19 15:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to mention your body. When he starts talking like that just say, "Hey, you're making me uncomfortable." If he says, "Why?" just tell him that he knows why. He will respect you for it and if he doesn't then he's not the kind of guy you want anyhow.
2006-09-19 15:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would'nt the mature thing be to tell him that you are uncomfortable? It would be immature to act all giddy and go along with him. He does not sound like much of friend anyways.
2006-09-19 15:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off use spell check- it's sounds like you are very young, and if that is the case you don't be dating. If you feel that he is offending you HE is the best person to discuss HIM with. You should be upfront and tell him those remarks cross the line and although you appreciate his fondness of you, you will not tolerate disrespect.
2006-09-19 15:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by nexus2k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say that if it matters to u it matters and its not immature to tell someone what u want or not, i would tell him. but just alil advise. . . it will always happen for the rest of r life. boys are just like that. the first thing they notice is looks then personality. just try and stand up for urself and ignore them.
2006-09-19 15:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by darkvamp4542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like it's a joke and say, "Shut Up, Ugly". He might get the hint, even though you're laughing. (They say half-truths can be found in joking)
2006-09-19 15:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he says things like that just agree with him and walk away
2006-09-19 15:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be nice and tell him u dont like him
2006-09-19 15:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋