My best friend is realy mad at me for swinging my hand and accidently hitting her. She wasint realy paying atention and she thinks it was on purpose. Shes realy sensitive and can somtimes have a temper. Please help me, Im realy sorry but I dont know how to tell her.
2006-09-19 14:52:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well first explain to her after she cools off about the matter that it truly was an accident and explain to her how you relAy LOVE HER AND WOULD NEVER HURT HER ON PURPOSE AND AM SO TRULY SORRY AND LET HER NO SHE NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND FORGIVE NESS BECAUSE I'M SORRY IS ALL YOU CAN DO WE ALL HAVE ACCIDENTS AND WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES IF SHE CANT ACCEPT YOUR APOLOGY SHE WAS EITHER NEVER YOUR FRIEND OR SHE IS JUST REAL IMMATURE
2006-09-19 14:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by DIrtycircus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her with your deepest "sincerity" ( if truly meant) ! Then just allow her some space, time & opportunity to review the situation within her own mind and then get back to you whenever she feels she can & has gotten beyond the unfortunate incident .
Besides, your being best-friends is a strong factor that will weigh heavily upon her decision-making process when it come to her ending a friendship with you about something so very minor.
But however, my best advice to you would be that you try to be a bit more careful with her in the future! Haha!
2006-09-19 15:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by anthony J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let a day or two pass by to let the waters calm a bit. Then just talk to her. Not on the phone cause she can hang up. But face to face. Explain that you are trully sorry and that your friendship is stronger than that. To be honest, if she can't forgive you for an accident, then she isn't trully your friend. But sincerely apologize to her regardless.
2006-09-19 14:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by ktjokt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off with a sincere appology and a reassurance that you would never hurt her. You should also wonder why she thinks you would do it on purpose. Sounds like there may be some other issues.
Or Hit her again see if she feels the difference...lol
2006-09-19 14:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by L.lion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her have time to think about it and cool off. Maybe she got embarrassed. If she is truly your best friend, she will realize after she cools off, that you didn't intend to slap her. Just a note*don't swing your hand in her face anymore. By all means, you owe her an apology, just wait until she is ready to hear and accept it.
2006-09-19 15:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note or find her the perfect card...At this point, she probably needs time to cool off...allow her that space...Once you have sent your apology to her...Your side of the street is clean and the ball is in her court..If she still won't forgive...Perhaps you need to redefine BEST friend..A real best friend would accept the apology and move on
2006-09-19 14:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by kingsfans2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you send her a text message, an email or write her a note and put it on her locker? Sometimes a message gets the ice broken.
2006-09-19 14:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by sunseekerrv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to suck it up, accidents happen. No place for people who are sensitive AND have a temper. Tell her to grow up, I'm sure you've already said your sorries
2006-09-19 14:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit your best friend down and look at her straight in the eyes and say..(name) im sorry about the other day. it was an accident and i swear i would never do that to you on purpose. you are my best friend and i hope that you can forgive me.
2006-09-19 14:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by beth-y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you're sorry and remind her how much she means to you and that you'll NEVER hurt her on puspose and you'd gladly hurt yourself first before her. After that, SHUT UP and give her a break.
2006-09-19 14:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋