Im going on the saying "good things come to those who wait." if you guys dint catch on. I used to see this guy and we are suppose to be starting back up but hes taking too long. I am a strong believer of a relationship having the ability to be firm in its standing if the man initiates. many times, and Im not man bashing! I have seen relationships fall b/c of the man. especially when the woman persued him. So theres really is no rush, i just want to be close to him and communicate more. so do you all think i should speed up the process by telling him what I want and seeing if he responds, or should I just wait? I want to be patient but I think 3 weeks is enough time!
2006-09-19 14:18:22 · 8 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I agree with you wholeheartedly! I think that the most you should do is let him know that, if he wanted to get together, you'd definately be interested...but that you wont pursue him. That way, he knows he wont be turned down, but he still has to make the initiative...and can't try to say later that he was never really interested in a relationship and that you assumed it. Usually men have no problem making the move, even if they are a little shy-or nervous, if they know that you are interested. Only caution...be ready to accept it if he still does not seem interested. At least you'll know where he stands then...and you can move on if it's not what you'd hoped for.
2006-09-19 14:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by MonsterMash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter decided who she wanted to marry. He didn't know she existed, ( as girl friend material). She had certain qualities she looked for in a man (boy). Honesty, kindness, straight forwardness (not sneaky, or deceiving), respect-full. She didn't care what he looked liked (although he was cute), or that he had no real money, ( he did have a job). She let him know she was interested every chance she got. He started liking her cause she liked him. That was eight years and three baby boys ago. He is a good family provider, loves her. Make sure what you are chasing is what you want to catch. Good Luck
2006-09-19 21:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by T C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and be a friend for awhile first- that way, you'll get to know him better and you may even find that he's not Mr. Right.
Then again, as your friendship matures, you'll be happy to have waited for this special person who'll be your soulmate. I'd let him make a move first or your pushing it may lead to a broken heart.Best Wishes!
2006-09-19 21:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 weeks is no time at all for what you are wanting, if you really look at it you are already in it neck deep so I would say to you keep on and enjoy the whole ride.
2006-09-19 21:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Montee P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whatever shuld happen, will happen, just give it some time and let faith take controlll
goood luck to u
i wish u the bestt
2006-09-19 21:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by ayYmire 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is waiting for a sign from you... like your waiting for him... sit and talk stop playing games and grow up
2006-09-19 21:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by hiyahun1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do it do it
2006-09-19 21:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if there's no rush.....
2006-09-19 21:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋