My friend Brian is a big guy, and he isnt the best looking guy, and keeps mostly to himself. I have tried pretty much anything, but nothing works. Any ideas?
2006-09-19 14:14:33 · 13 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Tell him to study hard, get good grades, go to a good school, get a good degree that is in demand, get a good job, and get rich.
Thats his only chance.
Otherwise he will get real familiar with call girls that offer the GFE.
2006-09-19 14:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
has nothing to do with size, just the girls he attracts...i have a problem...i am a guy magnet for all the ones i DONT want :-(
i like big small long and tall...as long as he fits the category of what i need in a man to make me happy etc. dont stay at home on the internet, go out and about...me and my friends go for walks with nowhere to go and voila...you never know when you will meet someone awesome...go to concerts, bars, dances, anything and no matter how shy you are...approach the girl of your dreams, otherwise you will probably never see her again. and if you cant bear it after saying hello...tell her your very shy, ask or give your phone # because once youve had a conversation...your shyness should drift away and you will be yourself...thats all their is to it...good luck ;-)
2006-09-19 21:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just needs to be a nice guy and treat a girl good.
I personally think Im pretty good looking and my ex was 350lbs. People always told me that I could do better or that I was too pretty for him but that stuf didnt matter. He was super sweet and thoughtful and a great guy. We lasted a year.
2006-09-19 21:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by nazihalo_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things take time, even if you're gorgeous. He has to be willing to find a girl, and he also has to find a girl who will appreciate him for the kind soul he is. There's not many girls like that. However, there are girls out there who like big guys (I'm one), so don't let him give up!
2006-09-19 22:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to find the right girl. I find bigger guys so much more attractive than smaller guys. It's as simple as that. It's a matter of personal preference. On the down side, most people don't have the same preference as me so it may be a long time to find the right girl for him.
2006-09-19 21:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug_elyse 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell him to buy her something nice invite her for a fancy dinner or to go eat something and tell him to get fixed up real nice and the special girl about himself you know, the basics.Tel him to be nice to her cuz girls like that.
2006-09-19 21:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if he really likes this girl then he should get to know her. never get a friend to play match maker!that was your #1 mistake. girls like confident guys who can just walk up and start a conversation. not guys that are to afraid to confront them!
2006-09-19 21:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to believe but personality usually wins a woman's heart.If your friend is outgoing and is confident enough ,he can grab a girls attention by making jokes about himself.
2006-09-19 21:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, before trying to get the girl to go out w/him, you should introduce them and let them become friends. then they can get to know each other and she will like him for his personality, not looks. don't force a relationship-it never works.
2006-09-19 21:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by zomplexi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for a bigger girl....big girls are beautiful too
Remember...no ones perfect, if you aren't the best you can't expect the best and I bet there are alot of not so attractive girls out there who would give him a chance.
2006-09-19 21:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by Alley cat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋