Why did he make me gay? Why would he do this to me? I don't want to be this way? Why did he put this curse on me?
2006-09-19 14:12:36 · 27 answers · asked by babii_am_i_doin_tooh_much 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Settle, down, my Dear One. You're not cursed and God certainly does not hate you. Okay, you've got a harder row to hoe than a hetero, but that doesn't mean you'll never find love. If you really don't want to be the way you are then change yourself; but change yourself so that you mean it and then don't whine about it. We love you, God loves you and now you need to love yourself. You were made gay for a reason. Now go find that reason and Blessings on you.
2006-09-19 14:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think the real curse is that there are people who are made to feel that being gay is a curse. It stems from hate, but not from god, from humans. I hope you can find someone to talk to because it sounds like you are in a pretty rough place. Here is a national hotline number of someone you can talk to. 1-888-THE-GLNH
2006-09-19 22:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lillith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God does not hate... only people who hate others believe that and use it as an excuse. God made you gay because he knew that you have the strength, courage and goodness to survive the onslaught of hatred and stupidity of others. He did it to YOU because he trusted you to take your life and make it incredible. You don't want to be this way because its hard, its lonely and its a burden. And I think he put this "curse" on you because he was tired of being the only gay person around and needed some friends of his own!
2006-09-19 22:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by moejaymom 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dear One:
First of all, are you SURE that you are gay? Because if you are not, then you are hating yourself for being 'untrue" to yourself. If you are gay and you are trying not to be, then you may feel that Divine "hates" you.
The Divine loves you exactly as you are...and wants nothing more than for you to be happy, either as a gay or non-gay person. Don't let the bible-thumpers tell you otherwise, that is part of their "thing" to make everyone around them as miserable and as self-hating as possible, so that they can step in and "save' you.
I am speaking from personal experience, friend.
Blessings to you!
2006-09-20 20:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Delilah L W 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just b/c you were born a certain way, doesn't mean GOD hates you. That's impossible he loves everyone. If you hate being gay so badly, why don't you just pray to GOD and ask him to help you overcome your situation. All you have to do is ask and have faith. He does exist. The devil is the one who hates you.
2006-09-20 00:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by BOMBSHELL21 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel, I've felt cursed because people can be very cruel to homosexuals but GOD doesn't hate you..it's how he wants you to love and how he expects you to live your life, Some people will hate you for being gay but GOD can't hate something he created.
2006-09-19 21:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
God does not hate any of his children. He made ALL of us in his image, and he is perfect and makes no mistakes! He wants you to be haoppy in life as any father would want their kid to be happy. Live your life and as long as you do things in Love, you are ok. Because to know Love Is to knoe God Because God Is Love.
2006-09-20 07:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by david s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, everything that we are , we are beacuse we chose it...you may not remember, but that's the reality, honey...everything about you is the result of your chioce, so pls, don't blame God, don't blame other people, your parents or whatever, blame yourself because you chose to be that way...now guess what? if you're not satisfied in the condition you put yourself in, don't you have the power to take yourself out if that's what you want and will make you happy? step back and take a closer look, and be intelligent!
2006-09-20 00:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
no, of course God does not hate you! God created and loves us all..and He makes no mistakes! if God didn't create homosexuals...there wouldn't be any! You aren't cursed, because God made you fabulous!
2006-09-19 22:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no god does not hate you..The religious leaders are accepting the lbgt into the churches.. saying its' wrong to discriminate against us.God loves you and it's a good thing that now religious leaders(not churches) are going to try to make things right.
2006-09-20 01:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by no name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋