Me and my friend are fighting (again) and we don't want to talk to each other because she keeps saying really mean things to me or she will take one of my friends from a conversation or just from being with me just to talk about me behind my backmyufriend has tried to help us settle this but it isn't working. I don't really want to talk to a guidence councler because our guidence councler is kinda weird. I NEED HELP FAST PLEASE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-19 13:54:29 · 14 answers · asked by &hearts * RBplayerkelcie * ♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-09-20 06:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say to her "________ we have been friends for _____ years/months/days and I really like you and I don't want to go through this ne more. If we can't sedle this in a calm and rational way then maybe we weren't meant to be friends. But thats not what I want this to come to. I'm sorry if I hurt you and I hope we can find some way to work this whole thing out." then see what she says. I hope you and your friend makeup. Hugs...and good luck
2006-09-19 15:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Chaysee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you guys are not the best of friends, because you are saying you are fighting again. If she is mean and is talking behind your back, forget about that B.... She is not a true friend.
2006-09-19 13:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not a friend if she's gossiping about you. not to mention rude!! your other friend shouldn't be put in the middle of this.ignore her if you can. if not' stay away from her for awhile. sounds like she needs a cooling off time. give her 2 weeks, then see if she's willing to talk about what's going on. all friends go through this. sometimes a seperation is good, sometimes you decide you're better off not being friends.
2006-09-20 02:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by bama g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, I can answer this, i just had that prob. my bff just thought that i
thought she was a liar, but i never thought that, and if shes spreasding rumosrs, behind ur back, tell them ther not true, or tell rumors about her!! And if she takes a conversation aways from u, kjust but in and say exsuse me, and shell probabbly give u a dirty look (adleat thats what my so called "bff" did) just give her one right back...just play it cool thelly come running back 2 u, that what she did, and there not really ur freind if they would do that kind of s h i t to u!!!I learned that in a week...lol!!!im not really "freinds" with her anymore, but i got over it!!! Go with the FLow!!!
2006-09-19 14:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk it out with her. If she's unwilling, then just distance yourself from her for awhile and go from there.
Try not to get too stressed out with high school drama, okay? <3
2006-09-19 15:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by lickitysplit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to work things with her. We really can't solve the problem. It takes you and her.
Try to be supportive of her thoughts.
2006-09-19 14:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this friend. It isn't worth all the stress. Move on.
2006-09-19 17:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by pageantbaby14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can really help the both of you except the both of you...you need to sit down and work things out among yourselves
2006-09-19 19:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by KingRichard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have to live with it but say your sorry alot of things will be solved but you'll have to work on it
2006-09-19 20:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by Surfer_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋