I appreciate that some guys don't get that woman have to talk and dissect their relationships and that they don't really get the whole emotion thing. but why do they feel the need to be rude or fippant about it? guess i'm asking for a tonn of rude daft answers from men now. well go on boys enjoy!
2006-09-19 13:51:42 · 24 answers · asked by bamba_982 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm going to re-write your question, but this time I'm going replace the word Men and Guys with the word Boys. (Boys being immature men) See if you can answer the question yourself.
Why do boys always have to leave rude responses on questions asked by a female about relationships.?
I appreciate that some boys don't get that woman have to talk and dissect their relationships and that they don't really get the whole emotion thing. but why do they feel the need to be rude or fippant about it? guess i'm asking for a tonn of rude daft answers from boys now. well go on boys enjoy!
Its because they are boys and immature to do know any better.
2006-09-19 14:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by johnnymifo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry but I am a male and I wont leave any rude response. I think that most men tend to act without thinking and they just don't like to be cornered with some feminine question. Women are very emotional and tend to stay close to their feelings. Men on the other hand tend to be more aggressive and less emotional. This makes them very unstable when cornered with emotional questions. Thus you get some wild un-thought out answer just to get you females off our backs. This also means that you will get upset and not ask anymore.
2006-09-19 14:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by osito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just cant help themselves - lots of guys only the know the languages - crude and disgusting.
However I have to say there thankfully are more guys that are mature enough to give positive answers on this thing than the aforementioned.
I think some of the women are just as bad though - and catty! There are some tough cookies on here!
I wouldnt take any notice of the answers you werent looking for though - you're gona get em - just scroll quickly past them onto the genuine replies!
2006-09-19 22:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity, fear of revealing that they have feelings, incapacity to respond, ignorance, complete misunderstanding of the question, you can take your choice of these and many others. I hope however you accept that it is not all men who react rudely. One thing is sure many men have difficulty in opening up and asking questions about relationships, this results in them mismanaging them. Relationships are not logical and as the male analytical mind likes to categorise and put things into "logical" boxes relationships and their related questions cause problems. On the other hand women tend to be rather or even over emotional in the manner in which questions are asked why?
2006-09-19 20:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms, I am sorry that most guys are jerks and can not deal with relationship issues unless they are simple. There are afew of us that wish to discuss whatever is needed. Some men have the same problem with women. Somethings there just is not a good answer to some things. It is called life and we do the best we can. So Young Lady I hope you find what you are looking for.
2006-09-19 13:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not going to be rude.
I have even had stupid insensitive replies to some of my questions.
The reason I feel people leave messages like those are because of education in Homes.
I will be the first to admit that most men are thick and ignorant they want to feel power-full and dominant.
It is not to long ago that women had to walk behind there men and were not allowed to share "or even have" an opinion.
I reckon it will take at-least another 60 to 100 years before women are rarely treated as equals.
It is not only women that feel the brunt of ignorance like this
You watch men together and if there is a difference of opinion,
it will come down to one threatening the other,
" I'm telling you I am right and if you say that I am not again I will punch the face of you"
"sound familiar readers"
Most of us men don't know how to communicate I know I don't,
but I do know that it is nice to be nice and it costs nothing.
And if any of you want to tell me different " I will punch the face of you".
2006-09-19 14:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi I think a lot of men have a hard time connecting with and having fulfilling and honest relationships with woman they like or love or care about....a lot of people just live on a surface level and think the physical will bring them happiness but this can only lat short term, true joy is a constant and is built on being real, honest and being loved for who we really are, in their situation they are in a lose lose and whatever does bring them pleasure is always short-lived this can make a person feel angry and upset...
2006-09-19 13:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ellie-Hay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's only a defense mechanism when they're incapable of answering the question. most young Guys really don't dissect relationships . Hungry-eat tired -sleep, Horny - OK.
But there are some.
2006-09-19 14:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pmsl ... we're really a bunch of immature kids and like to be as rude or flippant as possible!
I do try to offer some relevant advice in my answers - before I make any lewd suggestions though!
2006-09-20 00:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most probably because they find questions like that really boring and aren't interested enough to give a halfway decent answer. so is it really worth the bother asking ?
2006-09-19 15:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by mescalin57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋