I went out with this guy that i really liked...but we broke up...i tried dating other guys to make him jealous...but it wont work...and i still have a huge crush on him...he's from my school...but then i had to switch school...my school is really close to my old school...but i just never get to see him unless some events happens....i really like him...but he kept on saying no....i almost cried every night because of this...what do i do? my friend from my old school is helpin me out...but what do i do???
2006-09-19 13:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by nicokyu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your attachments and fantasies to anything are too strong. It would ruin your life if you don't know how to manage these things. In life, you must be willing to let go and move on. Losing a parent, a sibling, a pet, a toy, a friend, a guy, a job etc, are part and puzzle of life. So cheer up and move on. He is not going to be your life or be with you for life. Furthermore, he has already told you no and you are so strong headed because you don't want to lose. Minimize your dignity and pride. You have more challenging things in life to 'fight' as you face the real world. Take care ok.
2006-09-19 13:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. It is so hard when you want something so badly, but it just doesn't work out. Get involved with an after school activity or do something with your friends after school. It may seem like your life is empty, but focus on other things. In time you will find that you are better off. If it doesn't get better try talking to an adult or a councilor.
2006-09-19 20:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kelley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is your friend helping you...by talking to him or just comforting you? Not sure what that entails for you. Anyway, if he's not interested in you, what can you do? You could try to pursue it a bit more, but time will tell....after many attempts without a positive response there's not much you can do except move on and time will heal your pain.
2006-09-19 20:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu're only torturing yourself by having your life revolve around him. Do things that make you happy. Don't go out with guys because you just want to make your boyfriend jealous. Thats not fair to the guys or you. Go our with your good friends and be try to appreciate what you have.
2006-09-19 20:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just get over it! Is he really worth all this trouble? I seriously doubt it. don't worry about being with a guy, you have a life and you are allowed to have fun without any guy hanging around. Go hang out with your friends and just have fun while you are young. You will have many chances with guys later.
2006-09-19 20:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey this happend to me too(except I din't cry) you just think about other things in life that are more important maybe go for another guy
2006-09-19 21:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by If nothing lasts forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think all the things that he ever do that hurting your feeling, i can understand that you still wants to see him around you but just watch dun try anymove anymore......until you feeling recover to let him go then you will free from this problem soon.
2006-09-19 20:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by iktomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiddo, you really need to try to get over this guy. Try some activities with friends, read, study, exercise.... Just please don't sit & cry over him. It is NOT worth it.
2006-09-19 20:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop waisting your time with this loser! Find someone else. He doesn't want you,what more can I say.
2006-09-19 20:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋