It's Like When I Am Around My Family And Friends I Am Not Shy But When I Get To School I Just The Quiet Girl And I Completely Shut Down. I Keep Telling Myself That It's Not Me And I Need To Act Like I Act At Home, But I Can't No Matter How Hard I Try. I Think It's Preventing Me From Doing All Of The Normal Teenager Things Like Dating. I Really Need Help!!!!
2006-09-19 13:32:16 · 7 answers · asked by deandra613 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What you need to do is talk to the people around you in class. Once they start getting to know you then it should be easy to open up to them and hang out. Talk to as many people you can and become friends with all of them. Don't stick to one click but have a different aray of friends. Then when you are around alot of people they will know you and you can open up and be who you are with out people judging you.
2006-09-19 13:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by drunken monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make a decision to do it and follow up by working though the moments when you are not comfortable.
It gets easier as time goes on. The trick is to be less concerned with how you look in front of people you don't know well.
If you can get into a public speaking class, that experience will help you a lot.
2006-09-19 13:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront your fear. You are afraid of being yourself. What are you afraid of. Your peers not liking you for who you really are? Unless you have a really crappy personality you should not be concerned with what anybody else thinks. Or you can fall down and hit your head and make everybody think that you had a sudden head trauma change and you are now a completely different person.
2006-09-19 13:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Devildog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at someone to break the ice, then start up a conversation by asking their opinion on something. Being a good listener is a good way to make friends.
2006-09-19 13:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by CrankyYankee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think like this,"i am just a girl.nobody will seriously care what i do'' just let yourself free. nobody will laugh at you when you laugh something funny,cause it's funny girl.
2006-09-19 13:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't worry about what other people are thinking about you because they are even more insecure and messed up inside than you are ;P
2006-09-19 13:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one painful step at a time.
2006-09-19 13:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋