Why do homosexual people accuse you of being gay when you question their lifestyle?

Question

Is it because they're trying to shut you up? Perhaps the feel threatend.

Answer 1

You bore me.

Answer 2

**** you. Do I sound threatened? Nope, and it's" they feel threatened", okay? Jesus, if you people want to be taken seriously by the gay community or by anyone, learn our ******* language. We do not feel threatened. If you weren't too busy with this stupid kind of mentality, you would know that a majority of people who hate gays and question that lifestyle, either are gay, or at least unsure of themselves or insecure about who they are. And why do you straight people have to question our lifestyle, anyway? And don't give me some ridiculous god or bible notion, because you all are such hypocrites, you all preach one thing, and then do the exact opposite. I know what the bible says, I'm not stupid. Only people who follow it word by word are. You can usually tell who those people are, I mean, Christ, on of them lives in the White House. I hope you realize that you will die alone, and everything you believe in is complete nonsense. And you know, gay people would have the right to feel threatened, I mean after all, a complete stranger is attacking their way of life. Wouldn't you? Of course you would. You feel threatened by gay people, or you wouldn't question them.

Answer 3

I've never heard anyone accuse anyone of being gay, unless they meant it as an insult. It is proven that some of the biggest homophobes are really closeted homosexuals; I've heard that brought up a few times.

FYI: being gay means being happy; not got aids yet.

One other thing: being homosexual isn't a lifestyle anymore than being straight is. Homosexuals do the same things on a day to day basis as straights do, so it isn't a "lifestyle." I've never felt threatened when people question my orientation.

Bottom line: I don't go around asking straights why they're straight; so don't go around asking homosexuals why we are homosexuals.

Answer 4

Because they can't figure out why someone who is not gay/bi or who does not have family members or friends who are gay/bi would even waste his or her time coming into this forum.

That you yourself might not be straight is the first possibility on their list.

My guess is that you feel rejected by other people and so you like to hang out with a minority group. You can't understand or condone the lifestyle though so the only way you can communicate with them is to question everything they do. I think you actually like to be here by these men and women because they tolerate you. In essence, they have become your friends.

Answer 5

Because unless the can believe that those who question them are gay, and therefore the same as them, they would have to deal with the issue might be forced to admit to themselves things they would rather not. So you get Brainless people like Nut B who to hid their own insecurities and psychology project that onto the questioner. And you can be sure the more rabidly they do that the more psychologically screwed up they are

Answer 6

I don't accuse you of being gay....I simply acknowledge the fact that you're an ignorant, hateful, obnoxious, homophobic jack@ss.... and if you hate us so much, why do you keep coming to this forum? and do you really expect that when you continuously come here day after day and post your nastiness, that you aren't going to offend people? do you really expect us to roll over and take your homophobic filth? I don't feel threatened by you at all.....I find you to be a sad, sorry excuse for a human being. must be pretty lonely hating so many people...you can't have many friends. maybe you're just jealous that we're actually happy despite all your hateful ranting?
just look in the mirror and ask yourself....am I really proud of being a bigot?

Answer 7

I think others might have covered why it would appear you might be gay.. since you hang out in this section all the time.. ask foolish questions that are usually not questions at all in order to preach..

I will tell you what I do know. I know for a fact that any sensible gay is praying you are not since you would give us all a very bad name.

Come back when you grow up.. then maybe someone won't mind talking to you.

Answer 8

Because you aren't just questioning our "lifestyle." The amount of really blatantly ignorant and harassing questions tends to show us that you're actually obsessed with it.

Clue: There's no such thing as a "Homosexual lifestyle." We live LIVES, our lives. We don't ALL live the same way, or in the same style, we don't all live in the same place or socialize with the same people. We don't all dress alike or drive the same cars. We don't all make the same incomes or have the same number of partners.
We live INDIVIDUAL LIVES.

Answer 9

You know, I don't play board games. There's a whole category devoted to board games, but I don't spend any time there. I simply have no interest in the playing of board games.

Yet people like you spend an awful lot of time here and thinking about how much you hate this "lifestyle". You're sure interested in questioning it. And we have to wonder why it preoccupies you so much.

Personally, I would as soon let the straights have you.

Answer 10

I don't accuse people of being gay. But it is odd that someone who is not affected by gay people because you have a heterosexual lifestyle, then what piques the curiosity so? Control? Or maybe boredom?

Answer 11

Well I never question homosexuals lifestyle, because it's their life not mine. I shouldn't be telling others how to live their life because frequently I am not god. Anyways sometimes I ask them, well do you ever get teased because of your sexuality or how long have you know? Then some how they get intimidated and then they all of a sudden try to question my sexuality. Which is really annoying. Anyways maybe we should leave them alone, hey we shouldn't blame them for being who they are.