Ok, I'm a senior in hs & I am sick of my friends. I've kind of had a love-hate relationship w/ them since freshman yr.
I just feel so LIMITED and "safe" hanging with them.
There's other ppl in my class (I go to an all-girls school) who I know I'll click with - we say similar things, have the same things in common, have the same sense of humor - its just crazy. I know at least one of the girls wants to be friends with me but I don't know, like, how to be friends with them.
The real me is finally beginning to emerge - and as my old persona is slowly beginning to fade, I'm getting a little tired of my friends and the same-old, same-old. I don't want to graduate feeling like I missed out on so many other relationships, and just "settled".
What can I do? What is the best way to go about this? I want to solve this ASAP, because life is too short to settle....and I need some great advice!
*THANK YOU*
2006-09-19 13:19:29 · 9 answers · asked by newyorkrose9 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Trust me, after high school, you will realize how insignificant the stupid crap you did during that period of your life was, and chances are you wont even talk to any of those people anymore.
You only have this one last year to go. If you dont spread your wings now, you will get the chance when you are out of high school and in the real world. So dont sweat it. High school is nothing compared to the life that comes after it is over.
2006-09-19 13:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a party and invite the kids you hang out with and those you want to hang out with. Then see if you really do like the others. You might not. If you do, slowly start phasing out your old friends and phasing in the new. That way people wont be hurt - it will be a natural progression. Remember, the people you are friends with in high school aren't the friends you have when you are older.
2006-09-19 13:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by mamaP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with people you click with and don't isolate yourself with your " old friends" ask this new girl if she wants to hang out and go for coffee or the mall? Any girl is up for that and then you can find other things to do together after you find out her other interests.Life is too short and this new girl could be your best friend forever and those are HARD TO FIND. Good luck and be confident this isn't going to kill you.
2006-09-19 13:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start by talking to the other girls, sounds like you are in the stuck up crowd now. Get out of it there are so many nice people out there. I was friends with everyone in school. You cant be bothered by what other people think of you. If they think less of you cause you are friends with someone else then they werent really your friends after all. You are intitled to as many friends as you want you can never have to many. As long as they are good friends.
2006-09-19 13:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well fisrt of all an all girls school i couldn't do!!! You are a good one. If you feel limited around your friends open up and find some more friends that you can feel complete around.
2006-09-19 13:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your problem is you think of your friends like that old pair of sneakers you cant get rid of,or that ripped up smelly teddy bear you had since the day you were born. it's time to shed that ca coon,spread them wing's. remember variety is the spice of life. and speaking of life you have only one chance to get it right. this isn't a practice run
2006-09-19 13:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by turnaround 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you should make new friends everytime even if they not the close one.me too sometimes tired of friend if i hang out with them for long.just talk to people and you will find the answer.
2006-09-19 13:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your name.as u get older u will get tired of .the same old sh-- with your same old friends.
2006-09-19 13:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry on being urself..good friends will emerge..trust me
2006-09-19 13:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by phunkymonkiedude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋