. i hate him and i hate what he did to me. ive tried to kill myself because of him. the abuse he put me thought was so horrific.its been like 2 years since ive broken up with him and i still find myself thinking of him everyday. i have nightmares of him. i look for him online on the stupid myspace things and youtube, yet when i see a pic of him or anything that relates to him i can bearly handle the thought of him going on like nothing happend. why cant i forget about him and move on with my life?
2006-09-19 13:12:19 · 13 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thing is i have a great new boyfriend that i have been with for about a year now...i am so in love with him. and i dont think about my x for one second when im with him, but when im alone my x comes right into my head
2006-09-19 13:18:37 · update #1
The best thing that happened is that you guys are apart. You can do bad all by yourself! You have to know that you did not deserve the abuse. He does not love you if he beats on you. You are a teasure . If you continue to go out with guys like that you will reject the good men in this world. You will not know how to be loved the way you deserve to be loved.
2006-09-19 13:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by jessica h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't forget because he was such a huge part in your life. Not necessarily a good part, but a big one. Perhaps you're paranoid. I'm not really sure why you keep thinking of him, but to stop thinking of him try to get a new hobby going. Start something that occupies you, something that consumes all of your thoughts so it's virtually impossible to think about him. My recommendation would be a new love interest.
2006-09-19 13:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't about the boyfriend...it is about your self worth and self esteem ...he could have been anyone...you need to put yourself first...I would take an overseas trip if I were you and see the world...go to Rome and the men there will help you forget he existed. Good luck baby girl...you are better than that garbage can of a man that you got into ...now you are out of the garbage and ready to get into the sunshine.
2006-09-19 13:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these problams are always happening , what people dont realize is that the best way to move on is a rebound,IM SERIOUS! dotn make a jeoulsy rebound tho cause that will make ur life suk in multiple ways. i wasnt abused my ny ex but i moved on from her and now im with sarah and she is amazing and i dont think of maryclaire any more. BUT THE KEY IS DOTN MAKE A JEOULSY REBOUND!
2006-09-19 13:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by liddledapopome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was there any closure on your relationship with your ex-boyfriend? If not, my guess is that you are still struggleing with the, "hows and whys it happened in the first place". Once you've come to terms with that it will be much easier for you to let it go and move on.
2006-09-19 13:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
individually, i think of there are a number of fish interior the sea. yet another clarification why women shouldn't provide in to each and all the demands of their bfs.. because it finally ends up in no longer something yet heartaches. i think you're able to take a bat and hit him with it! purely kidding.. time heals all wounds.. there are not any basic solutions.. protecting busy inclusive of a few time on concerns costly to you will purely enable you to overlook.
2016-10-01 04:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have not give yourself the chance to get into a new intense relation!!!
As soon as you do, you will easily forget... time... that is it...!
2006-09-19 13:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he has caused you so much pain is why you can't forget about him. its not easy being in a relationship like that.i know because i dated a guy like that. so i can relate to what your going through.
2006-09-19 13:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by princeessangel212003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive answered this same qeustion many times and your no different if you cant forget about him that obviusly means you two need each other
2006-09-19 13:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by dvaderrules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you think about him try to occupy yourself if that does'nt work then try to find someone new. dont listen to joey l
2006-09-19 13:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by Evan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋