My ex loves me... and I LOVE... HIS COUSIN... they are so close..... and if I dated who I really wanted to (his cousin) It would split them apart.... WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-09-19 13:06:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You and your ex are "exes" for a reason. You gave it a chance and it didn't work for the two of you. If his cousin feels the same way about you as you do about him, then (hopefully) your ex can get over you and maintain his close relationship with his cousin. If he really is close to his cousin, then he should be happy that his cousin found someone as wonderful as you. Give it time, he should eventually be okay with it. If not, then at least you and the cousin will be happy.
2006-09-19 13:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, This task isn’t always easy. You feel the need to think about others feelings, thoughts, and point of view. How you treat each other is essential and the key to love.
Shakespeare writes about a young male who does not know the true meaning of love. Since he is still a teenager, he has not yet lived long enough to know the difference between true love and infatuation; hence, he falls in and out of love without difficulty. In his search for love, his immaturity is readily seen. He uses physical appearance as the test for compatibility. Romeo constantly changes his mind about who is the fairest. His shallowness is illustrated when he falls in love with Juliet. Their marriage is quickly assembled without the due time to get to know one another. He reveals himself to be an impetuous young boy who neither cares to discover the true meaning of love nor invest the time to get to know someone. In the beginning of the play, Romeo grieves over the fact that Rosaline does not reciprocate his feelings.
Which one of these guys will love you back just as much as you love him?
Well I hope I was some bit of help! Good luck!
2006-09-19 20:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it this way. the feelings you have for this person is probably lust or just attraction. There is no reason to split a family up or best friends up over your own feelings. No lets say you saw him and knew this was the one you loved then go for it because if they are true family they will understand especially if you want to stay together the rest of your lives. Now if you dont then dont take that chance of breaking people up. thats childish
2006-09-19 20:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by DrakeE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you are very young and I have to tell you there are tons of fish in the sea!!! If your ex didn't do anything to hurt you then you should not further his hurt over losing you by now dating his cousin. I know this is not the answer you probably want but it is the moral one. but on the other hand life's short do what makes you happy easier to beg forgiveness than ask permission.
2006-09-19 20:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by cheryl d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAMN!!!!! sounds like a tough situation i'd say sit them both down and talk it out with them, it at least would show u respect both of em enuff, to not wanna come between them, but specially sit down with yo ex and try to get through to him, if dis dont work or if u dont like this advice im sorry, it's the best i could do, good luck sweetie.
2006-09-19 20:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex that you really dont have the same feeling as you used to have and tell him dont love you anymore because you're not gonna accept it anymore...tell him that you're in love with his cousin and tell him dont be mad at his cousin,im sure your ex will understand he really loves you
and also confess your feelings to his cousin><
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-19 20:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by nicokyu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart Sweety no matter what,or your gona be misable for not following your Heart,beleave me,Blood is sticker than water,Another words the cousin that loves you will be made and hurt but he will for give he,s cousin in time,But for given you,Don,t expect it!Good luck hollywood!
2006-09-19 20:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about a love triangle!... do u really love the cousin? how can u love him if u nvr dated him? maybe u should forget both of them and move on!
2006-09-19 20:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jesuslovesyou! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt date either one if you do you are going to break them up as a family, you can always meet someone else.
2006-09-19 20:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i'd leave them both and find someone else to love. as painful as it is and will be, it's probably the right thing to do. good luck doing whatever you chose :]
2006-09-19 20:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by KN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋