My friend dated my ex, who by the way, I LOVE (I broke up with him because we needed space) And she practically forced him. She said she would die... she said she would cry everyday, and he couldn't do that to her, so he said yes. Finally, he realized that she was obsessed with him so he broke it off. I still love him and I want to go back out. I asked my friend and she started crying and said that he loved me more and she was ugly and I was pretty. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I love him and I really want to date him!!! HELP ME!! WHAT SHOULD I DO? And remember, this guy is really important to me!
2006-09-19 12:52:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is your friend... she would understand... and if you date him and she starts ignoring you... remember... friends are people who are there for you till the end...
if she leaves because of some guy (that you or she might not marry in the future) then... she was never your friend...
and if you are think "well, if I go out with him... thinking that she would understand... then wouldn't that be like leaving a friend for some guy that I might not even marry?" then, that means that you subconciously doubt your friendship...
go for him...
NOT TO WORRY YOU: but if your friend turns serious... and shows sign of 'depression' and 'suacidalness'(if there is such word) then... get her to meet with a councilor and be with her... and show that you are there for her... even if it means kind of distancing yourself from the guy... but if the guy really cares... then he would understand =)
(this is confusing... isn't it?)
2006-09-19 13:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by krnprid3x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well friends usually last much longer than boyfriends do. Make time to ask your friend if its okay to date him. Tell her the truth about why you broke up with him in the first place even though you still loved him then and still do. If that doesn't work, just wait a few months or maybe just weeks for your friend to clear her mind. Maybe then she will be okay with you dating him.
2006-09-19 12:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love your ex, if you broke up? He is open territory now. If you loved him, why in tarnation did you surrender him? "You say for space?"
You still say you really care and he is important to you? Are you sure he wants to gwet back with you? As for your friend? Wow, can only tell you that she has some real emotional problems and had better be seekng some help soon or this situation could blow up big time...Just for your easement-YOU WILL HAVE TO MAKE UP YOUR MIND AND SOON, OR HE WILL WALK, HE HAS BEEN GIVEN FREEDOM NOW, SO BE CAREFUL-MANY TIMES IT BACKFIRES ON PEOPLE INVOLVED..Been there, did that, Done that! Good Luck and always think before you act!
2006-09-19 13:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by tombowling49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not really acting like a friend. And who the heck forces somebody to go out with them with such harmful words? That's sick. I would never be able to feel good on a date after saying stuff like that. Just go for it. Get your man back! Doesn't sound like a very nice girl.
2006-09-19 13:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first she was your so called friend and she went out with your ex that you loved? she aint no type of friend and you should ditch her a55 cause what type of friend does that who knows what she will do to you next just go get your man back who cares what she says and if i was you i woudnt talk to this girl ever again shes a back stabber every girl knows about the rule "you dont date your friends ex's "
2006-09-19 12:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 04:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that ppl say friends are forever and guys are whatever ( i got that off a shirt : ) ) but, it doesn't seem like your friend cared about ur feelings when she dated your ex...so tell her that you love him and that you want to be with him and if she doesn't approve she isn't a true friend.
2006-09-19 13:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask ur friends permission!!!!
after all, she was the 1 who took him away from u KNOWING u luv him!
she's 1 of those who get obsessed really much for a really short time! so it's really her issue.
u go and get him, he's ur man! ;)
2006-09-19 13:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is really important to you, then go for it! Your friend should understand that you love this guy and she should be happy for you! Good luck.
2006-09-19 12:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with him again
ur friend is obviously obsessed with him
jus tell her that shes too obsessed andu should try to help her
2006-09-19 12:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋