My birthday is coming up next week....in 6 days and I'm turning 17 yrs old and I'm having a party with all my close friends. My BEST friend doesnt want to come...she been my best friend for, like 6 years since elementary and she doenst want to come because she doesnt feel like it. Isn't that kinda mean? But she said she would buy me a present lol...but I'd rather her come to the party instead. Should I just let it go or what? What shoudl i do??? Should I be mad at her??? Why doenst she come??? Doesnt she like me??
2006-09-19 12:46:12 · 17 answers · asked by Vietnam_sweeite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I shoudl just let it go right? Obviously...I cant make her come to the party. I should just let it go right? Because....im mad at her lol.
2006-09-19 12:48:33 · update #1
I don't know. This all seems kind of weird behavior of a best friend. Maybe she doesn't like some of the crowd that you are inviting. Or maybe she's afraid of what she may have to do when she gets there like: dancing or drinking or smoking just whatever people do at parties. So don't push her and don't get upset with her because believe it or not people do have their reasons. I really doubt that it's because she doesn't like you anymore because she's going to get you a gift. So that says alot. Don't worry, everything in the dark shall come to the light. :)
2006-09-19 12:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should let it go. She's the one that'll regret not going. Her loss, not your's. I know you'll miss her at your party, but try to just have fun and enjoy and cherish the moment while it lasts. Who knows, maybe she'll change her mind the day before the party!
But maybe she just told you she doesn't feel like going because she has to go somewhere or wants to and it's a secret. I mean, what kind of friend wouldn't wanna go to their best friend's birthday party? But even if she did lie, she could still change her mind.
2006-09-19 12:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Off if Shes Your Real Friend for six years and she doesnt want to come to your b-day party then shes NOT your real friend at all COME ON who would miss their BF's B-Day Or maybe she doesnt want to go b/c you did something to her that she didnt like and you havent noticed but even if that was the case she should have enough trust in you to tell you what was wrong just ask her why? and if you did something to her you didnt realize? and if she answers nothing then you know you have to move on shes obviously not you Real Friend.
the Prodigy<3
2006-09-19 12:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by WISSEN IST ENERGIE!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you seem to have an issue with your best friend not coming, maybe she thinks you're making too big a deal out of your birthday and doesn't want to be connected to all the drama...if she's your best friend, she's still be your best friend, even after this is over, and you'll let it drop immediately if you're her best friend. Never assume anything when it comes to your best friend, talk to her and see what's going on.
2006-09-19 12:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by occasionallyrowdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be mad. If my best friend didnt come to my party because she didnt feel like it i would be very upset. She's default. She comes to all of my parties. Even if she doesn't like the people...
Tell your friend that you'd be very upset if she didnt come. And that you're worried what will happen to your relationship as friends.
2006-09-19 12:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by I like Cats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her exactly what you just asked us--if you don't have an answer, call her and tell her how her not coming is making you feel. Does she have a date? Explain how important she is in your life, and explain how much it would mean to you.
Don't end a friendship over this, but do get answers from her. This is obviously important to you. You deserve answers.
Talk with her.
2006-09-19 12:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does no longer make a large deal out of it...that's regularly occurring habit at that age. each and every so regularly my 2 twelve months previous does the comparable ingredient. to three babies that's comforting. you do no longer want to shame the little female for something it incredibly is regularly occurring. If it bothers you lots then communicate with the mum and have her communicate together with her daughter.
2016-10-01 03:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should be kind of mad at her because it is u birthday and she should be there 4 u.....
i mean u go to her parties right...
so y doesnt she come to urs????
u should try to see y she doesnt want to go
she is probaby still ur friend but has something to do
2006-09-19 12:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably being moody. Girls are like that around that age. Just tell her it means a lot to you if she comes, but if she doesn't want to, then it'll hurt you, but you dont want to push the issue. Chances are, she'll snap out of her mood and come.
2006-09-19 12:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by The New Mrs. Nguyen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she still likes you. Maybe she is intimidated with all the people you are having at your party. Happy Birthday!!
2006-09-19 12:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋